[ManDown]

Originally posted by Hector

YES! Or those who overuse the terms "masculine" and "straight-acting"!

Yes, the ones who will post "Straight acting guys only" right on their profile.

Originally posted by VAN de

At least those things can be justified. No fatties, why? The way they treat themselves tells me a lot about their lack of motivation to take care of themselves and perhaps other things. No fems, why? Want someone masculine to take charge. No old men, why? Self-explanatory. Those are more along the lines of "preferences", but to say No Latinos...how are you going to justify that? They're all illegal? They steal? They all smell like beans?

But still, it's really no different than not being attracted to a specific race. Not wanting to **** somebody because you aren't attracted to them because of their race isn't any different than not wanting to **** somebody because they're morbidly obese. It's all about preferences. Do I feel that it's wrong to judge an entire group of people based on their race, age, masculinity, etc? Yes. But everybody does it.

[Taste of Honey]

Even though this is the type I'm usually attracted to( and Mariah was probably my first crush and still honestly my vision of the perfect woman to this day ):




I appreciate something special about whoever I like. You have to have some special quality or aura about that's so powerful that it's hard to describe whenever I'm around you. That's what makes me attracted to someone. Not their skin color.

[harwee]

I'd like to say no but, as far as dating is concerned, I think a little bit.

I think dating just one type of race means you're not even willing to open yourself or see others a certain way. Like you're not even willing to try, and that's racist!

I myself have dated all races. Even though I've never had sex with blacks or asians. Hopefully that'll change someday and I'll taste a few good ones.

Basically for dating, I'm open to everyone. But for sex, I specifically like them white and cut (not the euro ones).

Does that make sense? LOL

[harwee]

Originally posted by Flanders

Yes, it's a bit racist. If your black friend is only attracted to whites he's more than likely got some self-worth issues. It's not just a preference.

This one said it best.

[Sunshine.]

Originally posted by ManDown

Do I feel that it's wrong to judge an entire group of people based on their race, age, masculinity, etc? Yes. But everybody does it.

I guess that's true for the most part.

I try to avoid it and view people as individuals. I've think I've fallen for all races. It's sad people can't look past the density of melanin produced by epithelial cells on a person to get know them. It's all silly.

[James L]

I don't think it is but I think there is something to be said about how these preferences are developed and I think nurture plays a bigger role than nature tbh.

[MusicLoverDude]

It's not racist. It's just preference.

I for one, am mostly attracted to guys with blue, green, or chocolatey hazel eyes. Blue and green are more common on guys that are white, so that pretty much comes into factor. I like lighter skinned black guys more than the darker skinned...if a dark-skinned black guy is REALLY buff and isn't a douchebag that would make him hot to me. It would also be damn hot if a black guy had Rihanna eyes (there's a dude at my school with those eyes, and oh hell yes they're hot).

Latino guys really just depend on the personality. Of course, if they have hot blue eyes and have some hot tattoos, I'll go for it. There's also another guy I know at my school who is half white and half Latino, and he looks mostly white but his eyes are hazel and they're ****ing gorgeous (for a freshman, I'm 18 so I really can't say that )

Asian guys well...honestly they all look the same to me. Asian girls are pretty and beautiful, but I find almost no interest in Asian guys. Black girls and latino girls tend to be prettier too.

Though, the main thing I get attracted to is blue-eyed brown haired guys.

Definitely not racist, it's just your preferences which is hard to control.

[Amaru]

Originally posted by MusicLoverDude

Asian guys well...honestly they all look the same to me.

[FreeXone]

Originally posted by Rentboy

well that's one definition. It could be a more general discrimination based on racial differences. And who's to say that your sexual prefernces are not rooted in a belief that you are superior to certain races? Maybe it's just not obvious. Maybe it's a subconscious thing?

And there are gonna be racist people who are not attracted to certain races because they are flat out racist. So this is far from a black and white issue.

I have to disagree.. It's THE definition to me.

I am attracted to my own race, as well as people outside my race. I view them all as equal. Not higher than the other.

I don't find physical preference racist, as long as you don't base it on terms of thinking you like one more race better than the other because you feel that race is better than the other.

I may find a car better in white, and you find it better in black. It's a preference, nothing against the color. I don't hate black, just not on my car. Same with people, I may find someone who has white features more to my liking and you may like someone better with black features. Nothing against the races, it's just a preference. And with a preference, that's not to say I may not once in a blue moon find a car better in black than in white. That's preference, you don't have to stand by it, you just know what you like more often.

There is no gray issue when it comes to a concept so simple in my opinion.

[NE.]

Originally posted by Amaru

[Sunshine.]

Originally posted by Amaru

Not in 2012 tho....

[Garrix]

It's just basically your preferences.

like for me, I'm not attracted to Asians or Blacks at all. I can be friends and that with them, but I really could not see myself dating either. It's just not what I'm attracted too and can't really help that at all.

[Mani.]

Originally posted by iLukey

It's just basically your preferences.

like for me, I'm not attracted to Asians or Blacks at all. I can be friends and that with them, but I really could not see myself dating either. It's just not what I'm attracted too and can't really help that at all.

That doesn't even sound right

[dman4life]

No. I prefer black men, but I have no problem with other races when it comes to making friends

[YoYo]

Originally posted by Deemy

No. unless you think you're too good to be dating such and such race, Then it becomes racist.

Basically. I don't know anyone could think otherwise.

[FreeXone]

Originally posted by Mani

That doesn't even sound right

It is what it is.

More men for me.

[ManDown]

Originally posted by Amaru

I'm crying.

[Monk]

Originally posted by MusicLoverDude

Asian guys well...honestly they all look the same to me.

I would call this ignorance and racism.


Not appreciating all this negativity towards Asians.

[Mani.]

Originally posted by FreeXone

It is what it is.

More men for me.

Actually, not it's not when you only date a specific race.
You mean more men for me. I don't discriminate.

[FreeXone]

Originally posted by Mani

Actually, not it's not when you only date a specific race.
You mean more men for me. I don't discriminate.

I don't discriminate. I have a preference. I'd still date people outside my preference.