[primo.]

Originally posted by ắttitudé

DvnR.

He said that?

[Sunshine.]

Originally posted by ****y On Venus

;;l;o-

Ay dios mio.

¡De acuerdo! ¿Es realmente el 2012?

[NE.]

Originally posted by ****y On Venus

He said that?

I thought he was Black. Go figure. ;asjkldf

[FreeXone]

Originally posted by Rentboy

well this is what I was alluding to earlier when I said it was still racist but maybe not in such a bad way.

I think Americans imparticular instantly regale against the word racist as though its like being called a murderer or something. But maybe it's natural to be racist when it comes to sexual preference?

There is a difference between being racist, vers having a physical preference. I think you're veering the two concepts. Racist is when you think your race is above another race.

I personally. Find mixed or latino the most attractive, as a preference. But I don't think that because they are my type, that they are better than the other races. That would be racist to say a certain person is better than another just from the way they look.

[Amaru]

Originally posted by ManDown

Or the ones who claim to be open-minded and interested in everybody, but end their profile with "no fatties, no fems, no old men".

Those are pretty bad

[Nicole]

I wish Cahleb and his strict no black guys policy were here for this convo http://atrl.net/forums/showthread.ph...tina&page=6172

[iEatYaBRAINS]

Not at all, however some people may look at it that way.
Me? I couldn't see myself with a white girl, but I'm not complaining about their head skills.

Personally, I think Ricans are everything.

[inspiration4]

Originally posted by NE.

I can say I'm very proud and comfortable with that, yes.

Racism is still alive and well. And because your partner of another race my love you, it doesn't mean they like your race as a whole. And when I've had a rough day at work facing blatant racial discrimination on the job, only a minority, usually a Black woman would understand where I'm coming from.

Thats unfortunate. You put a lot of emphasis on race.

[Deemy]

Im not attracted to Asians. Ive never have. Plus I don't see myself with one. I don't "HATE" them.. but they just don't get me aroused. Or I haven't find one that can as yet... although as I said.. not searching for one.

I also was iffy about whites as well until I had sex with one. It was "different" but it wasn't horrible. I just prefer to be with blacks because it's only natural to be attracted to your own race. And sometimes gender barriers can be a burden in relationships.

[Sunshine.]

Originally posted by ManDown

Or the ones who claim to be open-minded and interested in everybody, but end their profile with "no fatties, no fems, no old men".

At least those things can be justified. No fatties, why? The way they treat themselves tells me a lot about their lack of motivation to take care of themselves and perhaps other things. No fems, why? Want someone masculine to take charge. No old men, why? Self-explanatory. Those are more along the lines of "preferences", but to say No Latinos...how are you going to justify that? They're all illegal? They steal? They all smell like beans?

[FreeXone]

Originally posted by NE.

Life is always easier if you find a partner that's of your own race,.

That's not true. I've talked to guys of all races, and there are times when I have connected better those outside my race than those of my race, and I'm black..

[Deemy]

Originally posted by Nicole

I wish Cahleb and his strict no black guys policy were here for this convo http://atrl.net/forums/showthread.ph...tina&page=6172

Dead at him posting a pic of Ciara for a black man.

[i spit on haters]

Originally posted by Nicole

I wish Cahleb and his strict no black guys policy were here for this convo http://atrl.net/forums/showthread.ph...tina&page=6172

whew child, that was a scandal!

I'm about to take my ass to bed but I will be reading that mess tomor.

[NE.]

Originally posted by inspiration4

Thats unfortunate. You put a lot of emphasis on race.

Not unfortunate for me, personally. And regardless of what everyone says or feels pressured to be "politically correct", the fact remains that the overwhelming majority of people marry inside of their race.

That's not racism, that's self-identity.

[primo.]

Originally posted by iEatYaBRAINS

Not at all, however some people may look at it that way.
Me? I couldn't see myself with a white girl, but I'm not complaining about their head skills.

Personally, I think Ricans are everything.

[MrDeeds]

The Jay-Z example, as always

[FreeXone]

Originally posted by ****y On Venus

It may not be entirely racist or hateful, but when you eliminate an entire group of people from your dating pool solely based on race, there might be a slight issue.

AMEN!

I for one am not that attracted to Asian guys, but that doesn't mean I wouldn't give someone of Asian background a chance. Sometimes I catch some cute gay Asian guys.

I would think it be racist if you refuse for any reason to date someone of a certain race that it may be a little racist. Even if you found someone to have all the qualities you like, but say "nope I don't like them cause they belong to this race" that is ignorant, and that I would deem racist.

[Flanders]

Yes, it's a bit racist. If your black friend is only attracted to whites he's more than likely got some self-worth issues. It's not just a preference.

[Rentboy]

Originally posted by FreeXone

There is a difference between being racist, vers having a physical preference. I think you're veering the two concepts. Racist is when you think your race is above another race.

well that's one definition. It could be a more general discrimination based on racial differences. And who's to say that your sexual prefernces are not rooted in a belief that you are superior to certain races? Maybe it's just not obvious. Maybe it's a subconscious thing?

And there are gonna be racist people who are not attracted to certain races because they are flat out racist. So this is far from a black and white issue.

[Mani.]

Originally posted by ****y On Venus

It may not be entirely racist or hateful, but when you eliminate an entire group of people from your dating pool solely based on race, there might be a slight issue.

dsjafh thank you! I can't at people acting like it's normal to deny someone because of their race. That's not a preference,like really.