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Celeb News: LaPorsha disagrees w/ Gay People's Lifestyle (American Idol)
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Originally posted by lilMonsterKayla
You're calling a race/gender similar to a homosexual? 
We shouldn't diminish or exclude the reality of a homosexual, but we don't have to agree with somebody being that way. If someone is deeply invested in a relationship with their religion, you're basically saying they have to give it up/adjust it to accept your reality over their own. |
It's similar in that they have no say in their race/gender/sexuality.
You don't have to agree with it, but keep it to yourself if that is the case, unless you want to look like an uneducated idiot.
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Originally posted by Anvarie
It's not the first time religion has been behind the times, correct me if I'm wrong but didn't Mormon's have some kind of rule about Mexicans and black people being barred from their churches? But I guess you think them changing was a coincidence |
black men weren't allowed to have their priesthood until just a few decades ago but were allowed to participate in all other church servies. but yeah, i think this too will pass in time
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Originally posted by Drais.
Um this thread is about gays
And yes alot of gay men are naturally flamboyant.
Yikes, this generation is a mess. 
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Not really. You are not born with a certain personality. Being a flamboyant gay is a personality trait. You get those thanks to your experiences and the environment yoh grow up in.  .
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Originally posted by Snoopy
It's similar in that they have no say in their race/gender/sexuality.
You don't have to agree with it, but keep it to yourself if that is the case, unless you want to look like an uneducated idiot.
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I'm sure you'd let people speak out against religion, though.
"Uhm, no I wouldn't?" = lie.
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Originally posted by lilMonsterKayla
You're calling a race/gender similar to a homosexual?
We shouldn't diminish or exclude the reality of a homosexual, but we don't have to agree with somebody being that way. If someone is deeply invested in a relationship with their religion, you're basically saying they have to give it up/adjust it to accept your reality over their own.
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And what's their difference in this situation? What makes homosexuality okay to be "disagreed with" ? I guess you're one of those who thinks "homosexuality isn't natural!!111!!" 
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Originally posted by Tutankhamun
And what's their difference in this situation? What makes homosexuality okay to be "disagreed with" ? I guess you're one of those who thinks "homosexuality isn't natural!!111!!" |
Well for one sexuality is a lot more complex than race
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Originally posted by Starburst
Let's get one thing clear: nobody in this thread needs her to support the gays, nobody is asking that from her. But if she is going to voice her opinion to the press about the LGBT community, she should at least be allowed to be scrutinized by the members of that community, no? What are y'all mad about? That people who actually know what it's like to be gay have a difference of opinion? And perhaps want to correct her? It's funny how you guys are okay with homophobia when it's under the guise of "coexistence and respect".
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Right
No one is demanding she marches for equality or sport rainbow shirts.
If she's as a heterosexual women is gonna speak on homosexuals to the media then they have every right to voice their opinion on it.
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Originally posted by lilMonsterKayla
I'm sure you'd let people speak out against religion, though. |
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Originally posted by SweetTalker
Not really. You are not born with a certain personality. Being a flamboyant gay is a personality trait. You get those thanks to your experiences and the environment yoh grow up in. . |
But you just said it was a choice. Now you're saying it's a personality traits based on how you grow up aka not a choice. Which is it?
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Originally posted by Tutankhamun
And what's their difference in this situation? What makes homosexuality okay to be "disagreed with" ? I guess you're one of those who thinks "homosexuality isn't natural!!111!!" |
It is and it isn't, but it mostly isn't.
Imo, gender and race are like extremely definitive. Whereas homosexuality is something people are still leaving to environment and social issues. It leaves more room for discussion opposing it.
Sorry, you're not the same as black people. 
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Originally posted by RudeBoyy
But you just said it was a choice. Now you're saying it's a personality traits based on how you grow up aka not a choice. Which is it?
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Both  and what I meant is femininity in men is influenced by those factors. It is not "natural", or a thing you get from birth like some member said, though 
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Originally posted by SweetTalker
Not really. You are not born with a certain personality. Being a flamboyant gay is a personality trait. You get those thanks to your experiences and the environment yoh grow up in. . |
This coming from the person who entered asking people to respect his beliefs but swiftly went on to generalize the entire gay community,
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Originally posted by Drais.
This coming from the person who entered asking people to respect his beliefs but swiftly went on to generalize the entire gay community,
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I didn't?  i was referring to some homosexual people you are the ones generalizing yourselves. Whenever someone says something about feminine gays y'all always think we're "generalizing" you.
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Originally posted by lilMonsterKayla
I'm sure you'd let people speak out against religion, though.
"Uhm, no I wouldn't?" = lie. |
Unlike homosexuality, religion is a choice. Gays aren't the ones making life harder for other people with intolerance.
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Originally posted by Mezter
Unlike homosexuality, religion is a choice. Gays aren't the ones making life harder for other people with intolerance.
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I love humans & God.
I'm not trying to make people feel guilty or less than human, or whatever. I just hate the automatic "**** YOU, BIGOT.." response. Homosexuality = real.
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Originally posted by SweetTalker
I didn't? i was referring to some homosexual people you are the ones generalizing yourselves. Whenever someone says something about feminine gays y'all always think we're "generalizing" you. |
Um
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Originally posted by SweetTalker
And she has a point with the "gay lifestyle" comment  or are you going to tell me people don't choose to be extrovert fems? I guess that's what she's referring to, and I completely agree. |
That's exactly what you did. 
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Originally posted by SweetTalker
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Transparency
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Girl, the only transparent thing here is the space between your ears.
I have, many times, defended religious people. It is their right to practice their religion (as per freedom of religion) and I do not think it is my position to speak out about it as I am uneducated on the vast majority of religions. I do have a problem when they, or any one, perpetuates nonsense. As you are.
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Originally posted by Drais.
Um
That's exactly what you did.
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If you understood that then I'm sorry for you where did I say "all gays"?
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Originally posted by Snoopy
Girl, the only transparent thing here is the space between your ears.
I have, many times, defended religious people. It is their right to practice their religion (as per freedom of religion) and I do not think it is my position to speak out about it as I am uneducated on the vast majority of religions. I do have a problem when they, or any one, perpetuates nonsense. As you are.
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Well then stop defending religions, because most of it is built on what people would think is non-sense. 
(don't stop defending it Religion = love)
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Originally posted by jonasha
What kind of stereotyping and homophobia.
I'm so done with ya'll.
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Originally posted by Jackson
OK in this context I draw the line, because that makes an incorrect generalization of the gay community. Maybe I'm just making a lighter, more friendly (more probable) assumption
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Originally posted by Snoopy
They don't choose to be like that, they're just comfortable enough with themselves they don't try to hide it. The amount of ridicule and discrimination feminine gays receive, even amongst their own community is disgusting.
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Originally posted by Jackson
this as well. and generalizing the entire LGBT community as extroverted fems is too much. People shouldn't be judged for the courage to express themselves in a way that makes them confident and love themselves
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Originally posted by RudeBoyy
I'm pretty sure that's not what she's referring to at all, and you're projecting your feelings onto her. Also mess at you citing out extroversion like it's a negative quality |
I guess I'm just crazy then
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