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Originally posted by accelgors
yeah that's true...i also just kinda miss the feeling of being in a relationship too, it feels like it would make my life a bit better
*shoots alex*
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see that's the issue a lot of people have with their way of thinking. A relationship/boyfriend/girlfriend is not an automatic way to gain happiness and people need to get this idea out of their head. "Oh, when I find someone to date then I'll be 10x happier and my life will be amazing!" that isn't how it works. Your happiness isn't based on whether you're in a relationship or not and a lot of people actually get more unhappy when they're in a relationship that isn't working out and they're actually better off alone. It's important to be able to feel content by yourself first. Woo lord look at me with all this philosophical life lessons and **** tonight
Like I said before though I'd rather be alone and wait to find someone that can engage in a good lasting relationship with me rather than be jumping in and out of relationships all the time because I was dating just any random person that came along ya know. Just because someone can get a boyfriend/girlfriend that doesn't mean that they're happy or better off than single you.
