Soo today the asshole i have for one didn't go to school.. I came back home and signed onto grindr(HONESTLY, i only log in to check for him.. he's the only favorite) he wasn't signed on but i see he added his age to his profile.. So i knew he went on today.. I called him and he said he still has it and he went on for check for god knows ****ing who. Same **** last time I caught him, he went on to "check".. If you actually loved someone and were committed to them why the **** are you still logging on to Grindr to "check" for manny, moe and jack? I ****ing HATE this app with a passion and its funny cause this is the same guy who told me about grindr(no, i didn't meet him off it).. Am i over reacting? Should i care if he goes on it or not? We had the conversation many times and i'm fed up. He always says he deletes it but still somehow here we are again, back to the start.. But i guess ******s really don't know what they have until it's gone.. I updated my profile also and changed my relationship status to single(he could of added his age today but not his relationship status).. I love him but i won't hstand for this ****. Either grindr goes or I do. I don't give a **** if you're going on to it to check for your estranged father who you just saw kissing another man on the train. YOU DON'T ****ING NEED TO BE CHECKING FOR ANYONE urghhhhhh -___- i'm pist the **** off at this dude and its sad cause i love him so much but i refuse to be in a relationship with someone who's still signing on to Grindr to "check."
How do you feel about your boyfriend going on to Grindr? Would you allow it?
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Edit; I'm ready for world war 3.. wait till he see's i'm on it now too.. Its SUCH a big ass issue if i even mention Grindr yet he feels like he can log in whenever the **** he pleases.
It's obvious what that app is mostly used for... so.
Also, you can't control your boyfriend. You're in quite the predicament.
But unless you catch him doing something bad on it. You can't really forbid him from using it.
I can't possibly catch him doing something cause he doesn't let me within a mile of his Evo, another thing i ****ing hate with a passion. I don't try to control him. All i ask is for him to stop going on this ****, FOR GOOD. too much?
That's a big no. Grindr is for hooking up. Not only is that a betrayal of your relationship but who knows the kind of people who he could potentially be hooking up with.
**** that noise. He's "checking" for other options, plain and simple. Sorry Though, sounds like you don't trust him if you're checking up on him and he's clearly got the wandering eye anyway so I say drop his ass. It's pretty simple from a third party perspective. lol my bestie was in the same situation.
No. Some people say that they use this app to "chat" and make "friends"
********. You don't make friends that way, and certainly not with people with shirtless pictures. If you're on that app, it's because 1) you want to find somebody to start a relationship (even if that's hard on there) or 2) you want to get laid.
95% of people will want those 2 goals. So if your boyfriend is on there, he will get messages from people that wants him. That's not acceptable.
Though, sounds like you don't trust him if you're checking up on him and he's clearly got the wandering eye anyway so I say drop his ass. It's pretty simple from a third party perspective. lol my bestie was in the same situation.
we got work to do lol