What kind of control freak. Leave her as long as you're in time!

Not me thinking she physically pushed him in a closet

She is just afraid that he might be taken away lol

Just me who understands where she is coming from? I'm bisexual, but I'm not sure I would even want to tell everyone about my sexuality if I had a wife. What purpose would it serve?

I mean if you're married to a woman then you've already surrendered your bisexuality. She obviously wants to stay together for a long time.

I definitely understand her thoughts and feelings (I dated a bi sexual) but I'm more sympathetic for him. Her actions are not right. It takes a lot to come out and for her to push him back in the dark is in fact, horrifying. Like she's ashamed of who he is. She married him, knowing his sexuality and when you marry someone, you're taking a vow that you'll support them no matter what and she's breaking that. She cares about their reputation more than their marriage and his happiness

So she's holding onto the "bisexuals will get with every man and woman they can" idea? So what if gay men know he's bisexual, that doesn't mean he'll get with them

I'm also bisexual but this is problematic because whenever bisexuals get into relationships, people tend to categorize them as gay or straight based on the sex of their partner. This leads to bierasure, which is a huge problem. People are still bisexual even if they're in a monogamous relationship, and that should be recognized. Having bisexuals portray themselves as straight when in an opposite sex relationship is disrespectful of their true orientation

Neither of them are victims.

Ok, that's your opinion

Who said either of them were?

People are just pointing out that it's wrong for anyone to push another person back into the closet. It shows a great lack of respect for that person.

Well he has a wife, so what's the point of coming out? Assuming he stays faithful there's literal no reason

Her not wanting him to contact or speak with his Ex-lover seems very normal to be honest but the rest is pretty messy.

The person I responded to said she feels sorry for him. He has a wife and like Jackson said what's the point of coming out? Assuming he stays faithful there's literally no reason.

but like someone else said it's like my opinion, man.

I just don't like the concept of her 'pushing him back in the closet'. Sexuality isn't about 'what's the point of coming out when you're with someone' it's about finding yourself, being yourself and being open about it. Being proud of who you are.

My ex boyfriend came out as bi sexual when we were dating and your opinion (aka what's the point) did not cross my mind. I was just happy he found himself. His wife doesn't even have a viewpoint of 'what's the point' but a more shameful one. That's my issue.

Nonetheless, I do understand her I just don't like how she's dealing with this

I don't think she resents who he is, I think she's just really insecure. Tbh if I were a dating a bi guy I would be the same type of paranoid because in theory ANYONE is fair game. She'd probably get really jealous, paranoid, analytical, and overall confused about his interractions with her gay friends and other men or women. She's being really selfish, but I kind of understand how she feels. Now that I'm thinking about it more I'd honestly be really afraid to date a bisexual guy, and I know that's ****ed up because of course not everyone fits the stereotype, but I already have enough insecurity issues and all of my past experiences with bisexual guys have been so horrible I don't even care to deal with that BS. I'd rather just date someone who I know wants me for ME, and isn't wishing I had boobies and a giney

What a mess

There's a difference between admitting to having dated a guy in your life and saying "I like men and women" when you're in a relationship. It's not nice to hear from your significant other that they are sexually attracted to someone other than you.

Ahhhh yes the gays have her shook

Mess