It's a ****** thing for her to do but her reasoning seems just to me though tbh She just doesn't want her thirsty gay friends to hit on him and try to get his D or get a inside peak at his cake ingredients.
I wouldn't say he should leave her, but he should explain to her that just because he's bi doesn't mean he's going to run off with a man to replace her. There's such a negative stigma against bis that we as a society need to try to end.
Her not wanting him to contact or speak with his Ex-lover seems very normal to be honest but the rest is pretty messy.
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Originally posted by B'Day
I just don't like the concept of her 'pushing him back in the closet'. Sexuality isn't about 'what's the point of coming out when you're with someone' it's about finding yourself, being yourself and being open about it. Being proud of who you are.
My ex boyfriend came out as bi sexual when we were dating and your opinion (aka what's the point) did not cross my mind. I was just happy he found himself. His wife doesn't even have a viewpoint of 'what's the point' but a more shameful one. That's my issue.
Nonetheless, I do understand her I just don't like how she's dealing with this
My first boyfriend was/is bisexual, and his circle of friends consisted of males and females, some which he dated prior to our relationship. It definitely does make you feel some kind of way, so that part I understand; however, the way she's going about it is entirely wrong.
I mean, he's married to a woman, so there's not many situations where his bisexuality will be relevant at all. Maybe if he's telling stories and he casually says "once I had a boyfriend that..."
Just because someone is bi doesn't mean their "opportunities" are bigger. Let's not pretend all gay and straight people are the epitome of faithful here, btw. I'm bi and I've been in multiple, faithful longterm relationships, and they didn't end due to "wishing" my partner had different body parts.
If y'all really worry about this, you need to iron out some insecurities before getting into a serious relationship.
She just doesn't want her thirsty gay friends to hit on him and try to get his D or get a inside peak at his cake ingredients. 
