Do you feel sad when you haven't done these things?
If you're an introverted person and you have never been in a relationship or had [s]xes[/s] or just have fun during your younger years, do you feel upset about it? I feel like the world is passing me by because of this.
Well I've pretty much done it all. I just haven't been in many relationships, but I had a lot of "flings" with guys I really liked, and I still hook up from time to time. So I guess I didn't miss out on much, I just wish I had more, better, meaningful relationships with boys.
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Listening to WWWY. Oh I'm so mad I'm getting old, it makes me reckless.
My cousin had sex, relationships, parties, and all that at age 13-15. But then she got pregnant at 15 She's a single mother with 3 kids at age 23. She gained a lot of weight. She's not beautiful anymore as she was then.
Yeah. I thought going to college would open up a new chapter in my social life but I've yet to have any close friends and I've only been hanging out with people in my class like once or twice, let alone going to parties & meeting someone + getting a boyfriend. I'm an optimist and I still believe that maybe my time has yet to come but at this point I'm pretty sad about my current situation. I do feel lonely but being so introvert myself, I can't bother trying to make friends and ask them to hang out with me so it's kind of a dilemma. Why can't I just live my life like this video?
I wouldn't be upset about having 383644744 exes, that's NOTHING to brag about.
Break out of your shell & live your life. I'm a slight Introvert myself.
Stop comparing yourself to other people. Stop valuing your life against the attributes of others.
This is actually true.
BUT yeah sometimes i do, but not because of what other people do, and more about what i could have done when i was younger, even tho i did have friends and i went out and **** but i never went to clubs and everything because i didnt like them (only house parties). I never dated anyone because i was in the closet so ... . I never participate on **** in my school (dance, acts and all those things) even if i wanted to because i was so introvert.
You have to move on tho from the past, is not worthy and start doing something to change that for your present and future, not like start making friends and going out without a reason but just leave your life (im trying too)
I'm so ****ing glad I have never *****d myself out. I'm also glad I didn't spend my entire teenage years getting drunk and doing stupid things. Sure, I go clubbing and I enjoy myself, but I know my boundaries. These people who say 'You only live once, live by your rules and be FREE', sleep around, get drunk every night, and have no care in the world, are the very same people who probably hate themselves the most. It's almost an escapism for these people. I mean, really, how much can you respect yourself if you sleep around? I remember my friend telling me how they lost their virginity at 15 and have regretted it ever since. Your value as a person is not based on how many people you have slept with, how many drugs you have taken, or how often you go clubbing. Your value as a person is based on how you navigate yourself despite the option of doing those things.
I would regret every last second of it.
DISCLAIMER: To those who do, that's your life choice and I absolutely respect you for making your own choice.
If you're an introverted person and you have never been in a relationship or had [s]xes[/s] or just have fun during your younger years, do you feel upset about it? I feel like the world is passing me by because of this.
Same here, sometimes. But what I have to say about it is that life works best when you let things flow, naturally. Every time I push myself to be more active or do things I'm unsure about or hang out with people I don't vibe with just because "I have to be more outgoing", it usually sucks. We all have our own pace. Do everything at the time that feels right, I guess.
I'm so ****ing glad I have never *****d myself out. I'm also glad I didn't spend my entire teenage years getting drunk and doing stupid things. Sure, I go clubbing and I enjoy myself, but I know my boundaries. These people who say 'You only live once, live by your rules and be FREE', sleep around, get drunk every night, and have no care in the world, are the very same people who probably hate themselves the most. It's almost an escapism for these people. I mean, really, how much can you respect yourself if you sleep around? I remember my friend telling me how they lost their virginity at 15 and have regretted it ever since. Your value as a person is not based on how many people you have slept with, how many drugs you have taken, or how often you go clubbing. Your value as a person is based on how you navigate yourself despite the option of doing those things.
I would regret every last second of it.
DISCLAIMER: To those who do, that's your life choice and I absolutely respect you for making your own choice.
Oh and let me add how this whole "LIVE YOUR LIFE!!!!1!" thing is absolutely cringeworthy and is usually churned out by spoiled people who have everything figured out and handed to them. So don't take it too seriously
Oh and let me add how this whole "LIVE YOUR LIFE!!!!1!" thing is absolutely cringeworthy and is usually churned out by spoiled people who have everything figured out and handed to them. So don't take it too seriously
Live your life can mean be who you are only, if u are introvert and dont like to go out and **** like that then its ur choice, imo.
Stop comparing yourself to other people. Stop valuing your life against the attributes of others.
Thank you. I really do need to stop comparing myself to others.
Op: yeah, I feel left out of the partying scene & having a bunch of friends, but I feel very uncomfortable when I put myself in those situations. That just isn't me I wish I could just live with that but for now it's still bothering me
She's a single mother with 3 kids at age 23. She gained a lot of weight. She's not beautiful anymore as she was then.
(im trying too)
I wish I could just live with that but for now it's still bothering me