Thank you. I really do need to stop comparing myself to others.
Op: yeah, I feel left out of the partying scene & having a bunch of friends, but I feel very uncomfortable when I put myself in those situations. That just isn't me I wish I could just live with that but for now it's still bothering me
You can still go out! Not a party person?
Do you like bowling, hiking, fishing, camping, video games?
I kinda wish I did more ratchet things in high school, even thought I'm only turning 19 this year I want to just live my life to the fullest before I hit 20 and get somewhat serious.
Comparison is the devil. You'll be constantly unhappy if you keep comparing your life to others. Just do your own thing. When I was younger I felt like I was missing out because I wasn't drinking or partying or hooking up. But now that I'm older and I look back, I realize I would've regretted that. There's people I wanted to have sex with that I KNOW I would have come to regret, and if I did go crazy and start partying and drinking, my life could've gone off track and I might be in a bad place now. Doing things because you feel like you'll be missing out otherwise is almost guaranteed to end badly. Do things because you want to, not so you can feel like you're living your life as much as possible or w/e.
eh. no matter when you do it the first time the overall experience is pretty similar. i started dating when i was 16 and experienced all of the same things the ones that dated at 13 did, so i wouldn't worry too much about it.
and as for other stuff, i think you should make sure to go out decently often, but forcing yourself to do things like partying all the time if you really don't want to will just make you unhappy.
If you're an introverted person and you have never been in a relationship or had [s]xes[/s] or just have fun during your younger years, do you feel upset about it? I feel like the world is passing me by because of this.
I do feel like this sometimes
But sometimes I just reckon I am different. I do not enjoy house parties much (an Alessia Cara tea) for example. Maybe when I get out of college and have a job and have more financial independence.
sometimes I just feel it's only me, who can't stand the reflections that they see
i wish i lived a little more, look up to the sky, not just the floor
i feel like my life is flashing by, and all i can do is watch and cry
Yes, i hate feeling like im missing out. Im 20 and not satisfied with my sex life... i also want to go to more concerts and parties. I just feel like this is the age where im supposed to be experimenting and trying new things. Im not an introverted person, im very social and open to talk with, so its not like im too scared to go to a party or something.
Basically i dont want to dissapoint myself in my youth, im working and going to school, but i dont want to wake up in 10 years and feel like i didnt have fun and pleasure in my physical and sexual prime. This are VITAL years that i cannot let go to waste any longer. Yet you cannot compare your story to someone else's, we are all just at different stages and chapters, regardless of age..
My cousin had sex, relationships, parties, and all that at age 13-15. But then she got pregnant at 15 She's a single mother with 3 kids at age 23. She gained a lot of weight. She's not beautiful anymore as she was then.
I wish I could just live with that but for now it's still bothering me
It's a definite no for fishing and camping tho.
