This whole video is a mess. The fact that he compares real people with feelings to Disneyland roller-coasters, bye I would never want to be around someone who sees me just as a roller-coaster when around. I think he misses the point of monogamous relationships, which is settling down. There are so many things you can't do or can't achieve without settling down. Also, you'll get old, and your partner of the open relationship will get older, and both of you will not be good looking anymore, it won't be easy to find ****buddies anymore, then all of a sudden your partner will want to settle down and will dump your rosebud ass.
As for me, I don't see open relationships as relationships at all. It's a friendship with common interests and the ability to **** whomever you want. You can't just go around ****ing whomever you want with the chance of getting all kinds of diseases and risking yourself and the person you're supposedly with in an open relationship, and vice versa. If something doesn't satisfy you in a relationship (like the size of your bf's dick) you jump on the open relationship wagon, not because you want to get to know other people "better", and there is no emotional attachment, a strong bond, which most certainly is a key factor in any kind of a relationship. Open relationships, to me, circulate around the idea of sex and ****ing, which gives me the idea as if those people can't think of anything else.
And anyone who's in a monogamous relationship knows that sex with feelings and emotional attachment is MILES better than just some straight forward banging without feelings.
I'm very liberal and all, but if you are in an open relationship, I WILL JUDGE YOU.
The only time I agree with this concept is if someone is bisexual. If they are bi, they should have the right to have all their desires to be fullfilled, both female and male. Each bi person should be allowed 1 girl and 1 boy.
The only time I agree with this concept is if someone is bisexual. If they are bi, they should have the right to have all their desires to be fullfilled, both female and male. Each bi person should be allowed 1 girl and 1 boy.
ddd, yas
I don't know, I think I understand open relationships in some cases. Monogamy is fetishized and I don't think it's the standard we should hold all of our interpersonal relationships to
tbh I like getting with people in open relationships be it 2 guys or a heater couple or 2 girls
only so that I can make one of them fall for me and they learn their lesson, break that love is weakness
i learnt the hard way, sharing is caring
The only time I agree with this concept is if someone is bisexual. If they are bi, they should have the right to have all their desires to be fullfilled, both female and male. Each bi person should be allowed 1 girl and 1 boy.
Monogamy is boring but at the same time open relationships are not relationships for me. 3 ways (with your bf) are the way if you really feel the need of having sex with someone else
I'm fine with it & i'd be open to it. Love & Sex are completely different in my eyes. As long as you & your significant other stay safe when with someone else, i don't see the problem.
Thank you for making this thread, I just saw that video like an hour ago.
I think people should do whatever they want but the video is a mess. Personally I'm fine with people having open relationships even though it's not for me. That being said, he could have made his point in a much better way. Comparing open relationships to homosexuality, comparing relationships to rides at disneyland, and comparing **** to cheating are just stupid. He didn't have to diminish monogamous relationships to 'defend' his open relationships, it all reeks of insecurity. Saying people should make their own decisions about relationships without being judged but then judging people for their choices makes no sense.
I'm not in a relationship right now but I would definitely go for a monogamous one, simply for the fact that I'm not easily sexually attracted to people and I don't even sleep around now that I'm single. If I choose to be monogamous I'm not doing it to limit myself but because that's what I'm most comfortable with sexually. There is no reason for me to have an open relationship and this guy doesn't seem to understand that that's even a possibility.
Not that I'd ever want relationship advise from Davey Wavey anyway, but this video caught me in my feelings (which explains the essay ).
What is the point of being in a open relationship ? It's not a relationship anymore and just games. And ew, I hate this freaking guy. He is the definition of gay stereotype.
What is the point of being in a open relationship ? It's not a relationship anymore and just games. And ew, I hate this freaking guy. He is the definition of gay stereotype.
As for me, I don't see open relationships as relationships at all. It's a friendship with common interests and the ability to **** whomever you want. You can't just go around ****ing whomever you want with the chance of getting all kinds of diseases and risking yourself and the person you're supposedly with in an open relationship, and vice versa. If something doesn't satisfy you in a relationship (like the size of your bf's dick) you jump on the open relationship wagon, not because you want to get to know other people "better", and there is no emotional attachment, a strong bond, which most certainly is a key factor in any kind of a relationship. Open relationships, to me, circulate around the idea of sex and ****ing, which gives me the idea as if those people can't think of anything else.
And anyone who's in a monogamous relationship knows that sex with feelings and emotional attachment is MILES better than just some straight forward banging without feelings.
I'm very liberal and all, but if you are in an open relationship, I WILL JUDGE YOU.
YES! I agree with everything you said. Open relationships are disgusting and completely destroy the definition of a good, honest relationship. I can't imagine "opening" my relationship after being with my boyfriend for a year and a half. The idea of being with anyone else (or him being with anyone else) is sickening and depressing.
What is the point of being in a open relationship ? It's not a relationship anymore and just games. And ew, I hate this freaking guy. He is the definition of gay stereotype.
Very true, but that's to be expected when someone makes being gay the most interesting thing about their personality. It's boring.
Very true, but that's to be expected when someone makes being gay the most interesting thing about their personality. It's boring.
His youtube feeds is him shirtless or doing something sexual to guys regardless of their sexuality . I didn't bump into a single video of his talking about something useful to the gay community or something productive without him coming as a bimbo, self indulgent, or sexual if not all of them at once . My farts have more depth than his shallow thoughts.
I would never want to be around someone who sees me just as a roller-coaster when around. I think he misses the point of monogamous relationships, which is settling down. There are so many things you can't do or can't achieve without settling down. Also, you'll get old, and your partner of the open relationship will get older, and both of you will not be good looking anymore, it won't be easy to find ****buddies anymore, then all of a sudden your partner will want to settle down and will dump your rosebud ass.
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