I don't have a hard time with Bisexuality. What I have a problem with is some gay guys using it as a crutch to come out the closet when they're gay and not bi. "Also the idiotic guys who say I only sleep with men I would never date them", seems like a self hate to me.
Because too many gays use it as a way to "soften the blow" of coming out of the closet, even when it's plainly obvious the only time they've ever touched a vagina was when they came out the womb
They don't understand it so they react with disgust and disbelief. They only like one gender so it "doesn't make sense" to them that somebody can like more than one and so they claim it simply doesn't exist.
A lot of people have a hard time accepting Bisexuality. I personally think it's because people have this idea that bisexual means you equally are attracted to both genders and that is deemed as impossible. When it isn't. It just simply means you're attracted to two genders.
I don't have a hard time with Bisexuality. What I have a problem with is some gay guys using it as a crutch to come out the closet when they're gay and not bi. "Also the idiotic guys who say I only sleep with men I would never date them", seems like a self hate to me.
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Originally posted by Alejandrawrrr
Because too many gays use it as a way to "soften the blow" of coming out of the closet, even when it's plainly obvious the only time they've ever touched a vagina was when they came out the womb
Not everyone, no matter how gay they are wanna come out with a burst of rainbows and sprinkles. Someones way of coming out shouldn't matter to you anyways
"Gays use it as a crutch to come out of the closet while girls use it to get attention" is an unfortunate stereotype that people can't look past.
Me and a friend of mine got into it once when he didn't recognize bisexuality as a thing, even though he was active in LGBT groups at his university. He's since changed his views but it just goes to show how ignorant people can be.
Because people who are gay don't like the idea of another guy being with both men and women when they only like men. It shouldn't matter what someone else's preferences are.
