I'm currently going through a lot as some of you ATRL users may be also.

And I would just LOVE it if you guys could turn this thread into an advice thread for any one going through any troubles. Just ask a question and I or another ATRL user will answer your question hopefully.

This is a place for help and not judgemental users.
Please encourage the people here and give them good advice and lighten up their moods

Lemme bookmark this thread cause Lord knows I need all the help I can get.

Awww, there was a thread a while ago like this. Hope everyone reaps the benefits from threads like these if you need it

Use a condom, you dont want kids, kids

advice 1: put that chocolate bar down. it isnt worth it.

tiihihih jk.

question: what do i do if i feel so much anxiety about my school life :S i am so unsure about my school status: if im going to be accepted as a full time student anytime soon or if i will keep being a part time student and not be accepted as full time uni student by september. like i have massive school fear and a fear of failure. i literally have panic attacks at night because of it. and days before uni exams i dont sleep for like 3 days before an exam..i just wake up with short breath and i am depressed and stressed

Is it worth waiting to lose your gei virginity to that special someone?
Or should I just let loose and have fun while I'm still fresh and young?

I'm holding back in hope, but don't let that stop you if you're after a good time. Just enjoy life and go with the flow

IBeMe, I'm on my mobile but I'll send you something when I get home on my computer

Honey there is absolutely no need to be stressed. My heart goes out to you because I feel you so much. The way I got through all my stress during school and out of school is one thing is slowly telling myself everyday : "Everything is alright, you are doing great!" And I would always complement myself everyday to boost my confidence and music was also my only way out. I constantly listened to the same songs that kept me so relaxed. If you are into a little bit of religion i suggest reading the bible cause that was one of the primary things. I promise you it works and I could not ask for better help than that.

Well my first time was very awkward but finding a special someone is hard unless you live in a huge city so you might as well try around so that when you find your special someone you have some experience. No one wants relationships now unfortunately.

Let me just say a few things.

Always follow your dreams, passion, etc, whatever it may be. Never let anyone deter you from doing something. Trying is better than not trying. Also, never settle in life. If there's something you want, go for it, period. Don't sit around watching the world pass you by. Time is not on our side at all. Live your life, have fun and enjoy the journey and take the bad with the good.

I'm good at giving advice but terrible at taking it

I'll check this thread lataaaah to help you guys out

aww I love all of your posts. I wanted to join this forum cuz of you! always quality

Also if you are not ready tell your boy to hold it a bit. You should not be rushed into this. Your relationship is suppose to build up on trust and understanding. Once you got that down your sex will sure be 100% better

Should I move out of my mom's house? I'm only 18 but I can't take it anymore. I feel like if I stay here my depression will get worse.

Thanks hun. It means so much! I'm on mobile at the moment so I can't post cute atrl emojis for you lol

omg thank you so much cutie pie! thank you, just reading this comforted me so much, like I wanna hug you or something

thank you

No problem sis
You will be fine though, because remember so many people are struggling with the same thing you are and so many have it made it out just fine!
I want to give you the biggest hug right now lol

Hey guys, here is my trouble:

I have some friends but I have never been able to get really close to any of them, even though they are all nice people and they like me. When I see friends who act really close to each other I feel kinda jealous and think:"Why do I never have this kind of friendship? There must be something wrong with my personality." It sucks.

Maybe I am too picky when it comes to choosing the best friend. I can only trust and be close with someone who have the same hobbies with me, whom I can come out to and be myself with, who understands my values and life goal. Otherwise I'll just treat him like an acquaintance. Am I too picky and narrow-minded? Why have I never found someone like that?

I am going through exact same sitiuation and every little thing you just said is how I've been feeling. I also have classmates that are friends but I'm really looking for an actual person I can fully be myself around. You are not being too picky, you just have yet to find someone with your personality and that is not being picky at all. Wouldn't you rather just be best friends with someone who you won't have to act different around? What I find intriguing though is that you can be best friends with someone who doesn't have your personality but finds your personality humorous. And Vice Versa. Don't worry that person will come around. Talk to more people cause that what can hinder you sometimes. You just have standards also. We all do, and I'm sure you want a bf or a just regular friend with great intentions too! ;D

didnt citrus do a thread like this just this week?

I'm not sure but if he did then now ATRL has two places where you can get life advice from. The main point is, is that we can all have a place where we gather and help each other out Hopefully if you have anything that needs advice for me or another ATRL user can help you