All the work that straights put in to wooing a girl, it almost seems exhausting. I feel that ultimately, the main goal of the guy is to get some and that can take a while.

Since guys have the same goal, I feel that gay men can get some easier.



Do gays have it better in that aspect? If there wasn't so much homophobia in the world, wouldn't you rather be gay instead of straight?


I'm neither...just a thought.

Well you can't choose how you're emotionally and sexually attracted to someone.

But I think being gay allows you to write your own story for your life. There's not as much pressure to get a good career, get married and have kids like the generic white fence dream straight people have

In regards to just getting laid, I guess it's easier. All I had to do was dance on a guy for like 5 minutes and 5 minutes later he was in my bed. But then again we are just basing this on assumptions.

Yass men are more beautiful than women. Their bodies alone slay women
I'm very picky with my guys so I can't say I'm easy...

Yes. Straight guys are boring as hell

I think that's the case for most men, not just gays.

teach me your ways

no, I want to kill myself everyday

jk
but it's harder to be gay

Tag me along sometime.

Yes that's why I chose this lifestyle over the straight one.

This!

It's easy to get some but hard to find someone who really wants a relationship and all that stuff and it makes me so sad tbh. It is amazing and all but it's not gonna make me happy at the end of my life to look back at a life full of hook ups and no true love. Idk. I'm a very romantic person and I believe in love, as tacky as it sounds.

Well it depends on what you prefer...

If you're not bothered about relationships and just want sex, they're are plenty of gay people around who also want that.

I much prefer relationships. Relationships are much harder to get, but far more worthwhile.

But isn't all this based on generalizations? I mean, not all girls play hard to get. There's plenty who want sex and nothing else. And then there's guys who want relationships and not just sex. It has nothing to do with sexuality or gender, it's merely a preference.

Yes, im glad that im gay for this reason. Seeing how straight couples fight is annoying just to watch. I want men to pursue me, no work for me.

nvrmind actually

I like being gay

no, for the same reason that you posted. 99% of gay men are just interested in sex and use grindr etc. like a showcase and are extremely shallow. It's very sad tbh

Is that why many of you have chosen to be of the homosexual orientation?