Physical and emotional attraction are both very important in a relationship but.... Are looks a big factor in determining whether or not you date someone or is their personality what matters most?
Would you most likely date someone ugly with a great personality or attractive with a bad personality?
Looks are not a big factor, I legit dated girls who I thought were kinda ugly . I mean being hot isn't going to take points off , it just won't add anything to me.
I guess no?
edit: but it's completely different with guys. I'll date (and never longer than a month) someone but they HAVE to be hot. And by hot I mean face and body wise. I don't care about the race, height, other things but you just gotta look good most, if not all the time
not really, at least not as much as my friends, whom I keep telling to change or they'll end up alone
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Originally posted by RatedG²
Looks are not a big factor, I legit dated girls who I thought were kinda ugly . I mean being hot isn't going to take points off , it just won't add anything to me.
I guess no?
edit: but it's completely different with guys. I'll date (and never longer than a month) someone but they HAVE to be hot. And by hot I mean face and body wise. I don't care about the race, height, other things but you just gotta look good most, if not all the time
ICON, the rest of ATRL could neva
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Originally posted by PromKing
I never go for looks mainly because I can't handle dating a guy or girl more attractive than me. It's always the personality,
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OMG I never thought I'd find someone who thinks like me
Looks are always second to personality.... but I'm sure in my future, before I settle down, I'll have a shallow period full of (safe) instances when I spoil myself superficially
Maybe just a little. I reject 90% of guys that approach me, but that's because they're approaching me on shallow terms for the most part, but as for the one's that don't, I do feel bad about rejecting them based on their looks alone. I don't know what I want tbh though, so it is what it is. The 20s is a very shallow, superficial age group.
Not really. I know that beauty fades. My last boyfriend was everything I wanted looks-wise, but I ended up breaking up with him because he was a complete brat.
On another note, if you take good care of yourself that's a sign of other qualities that I look for, usually . So if there are things going on with you that are out of control then yeah, I would likely not consider it.
Yes. But I wouldn't say I'm shallow because that has negative connotations and makes you sound like a bad person. I would say I'm picky. But at the same time, dating within your league doesn't make you shallow and it doesn't mean you only care about what someone looks like. Physical compatibility is really important in a relationship. So is sex. Yeah someone could have an amazing personality, but that's not the only reason to date them. Sex is important. You have to be attracted to them. They have to be able to get you...aroused.
. I mean being hot isn't going to take points off 
, it just won't add anything to me.
