Personally I believe I'm really fugly with a mediocre personality so I 'd date an fugly fella as long he has a nice cool fun personality.Two, After my ex who was bit a better looking fella and kept bringing me down cause I didn't have the stereotypical alpha image of a man: tall , blonde and muscular. I really don't wanna date someone above my league look wise. Overall, I'd settle down with an ugly guy if he can replace his less than average looks with something else such a cool personality or he can be somehow independent.
I'll be completely honest here, I used to be really shallow when I was a teenager and I only cared about pretty boys but after being treated badly by said pretty boys I decided that I would rather look for emotional satisfaction in a relationship versus physical lust. I'd rather have a guy who treats me nicely and doesn't make me feel bad then some hot stud I don't have anything in common with and who can't support me when I'm down.
I'll be completely honest here, I used to be really shallow when I was a teenager and I only cared about pretty boys but after being treated badly by said pretty boys I decided that I would rather look for emotional satisfaction in a relationship versus physical lust. I'd rather have a guy who treats me nicely and doesn't make me feel bad then some hot stud I don't have anything in common with and who can't support me when I'm down.
A lot of it has to do with maturity and expectations. I feel like the younger you are, you have this idea of what you want. We all want the hot, intelligent, funny, loyal, not to mention hot type of guy. As time goes on though, you realize it's a lot more complicated that that.
Sometimes you find yourself attracted to types of people you never thought you would based off of a connection, whether it be physical or emotional.
Eh kinda maybe, I'll be honest, but not on a conscious level. Sure I want to be attracted to the person I end up with but they don't have to be perfect. I'm easily impressed and attractive to me is attractive to me, point blank - after that it's all up to the personality ad that's way more important. Like, indescribably so. I never ended a relationship over looks, ever - but I sure have ended it over personality flaws (on both our parts, of course, I'm not perfect).