Everyone, technically, has the desire to fit-in to a society/clique/group/community where sometimes results to pressure. I just want to know how the people from ATRL deals with this issue which is very common to the current generation.
I guess I'm glad I never tried to not be myself to fit in.
I hardly drink alcohol, only when I really feel like it. I don't smoke. I don't get pressured to do something easily.
If you're confident with not doing these things to fit in, and you find the right people, you shouldn't have a problem.
I have friends who all do drink quite a bit for example, but they couldn't give a **** that I don't as long as I'm fun to be around.
I change myself to whatever the environment demands me to be. I tried the "just be yourself" thing but it never worked.
This kind of.
I'm a different person in different environments but all those different people are all me, I'm not faking anything. It just comes naturally, it wouldn't be "myself" if I was the same person all the time.
I don't really feel the need to "fit in" because I pretty much keep to myself. I don't really care for what others do or think because everyone is different, so yeah it's not really a problem for me. If I don't fit in somewhere it's nothing serious because I always have myself.
I change myself to whatever the environment demands me to be. I tried the "just be yourself" thing but it never worked.
This was me in first first 3 years of high school. I was so paranoid about fitting in. Now as a senior I realize that I shouldn't any ****s. It's a liberating feeling. I'm not that different than my peers, but I like to believe that I carry a very different mindset.
I actually don't give a **** about fitting in and do things my own way so there really is no pressure. Works out fine, I get along with almost everyone.
I have a unique personality, but I fit in to some groups and I don't settle down or reach up just to fit in. I kinda bring 'life'/'fun' to where I go so it's fine and I don't force myself to groups where I wouldn't fit but on top of that I still get along with people pretty well.
I never try to fit in, I'm usually so quiet and I don't do anything, I have my own group and I fit in there but outside of it, I don't fit in at all since most of their interests are different than mine and just literally everything else is different.
Like when someone tries to start a conversation with me I honestly don't know what to say, I get nervous.
I don't try to fit in tbh. In HS, there was really no pressure to fit in. In college it's the same. I could just really care less about 'fitting in' I'm just very reserved and don't like to bothered 70% of the time and I get annoyed quick too, so that's probably another reason why I never felt the need to fit in.
When I was in middle school and some of high school all I wanted was to fit in and I never did. I tried to change myself and it didn't work, people still didn't like me. I realized I had two options: be who I was, and not fit in, or be somebody I wasn't, and still not fit in. I decided if I wasn't going to be accepted, I could at least be who I wanted to be and like myself if no one else would.
I decided if I wasn't going to be accepted, I could at least be who I wanted to be and like myself if no one else would.