i dont care to be completely honest
i have a compelling charisma many close friends told me that so i guess before trying to fit in why dont you impose your personality on other people
i dont smoke & i dont drink although many close ones pressurized me to do so or else i will not be 'cool'
I'm a different person in different environments but all those different people are all me, I'm not faking anything. It just comes naturally, it wouldn't be "myself" if I was the same person all the time.