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Originally posted by ALI☊
It's been six days! I don't get it though he seems so nice and after we met last week he texted me and told me he couldn't wait to see me again and bla bla. I don't know why I am so attached, he's all i think about. And I don't want to be in a relationship with him, I just want to be friends, and I don't want him to think he can just hook up and leave, and he said he wasn't that kind of person before we hooked up. I am sooo UGH, how do I get over him?!
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The same thing happened to me. Both said they wanted to hang out after we hooked up, then they pulled a 180 and completely ignored me. Sis, you have to make sure they know what you before you hook up. Sometimes it's best not to hook up when you first meet so they can get to know you. That's what I learned from my first two mistakes. They'll probably wanna stick around after a date or three.
Was this guy the first you ever got with, or does something else keep you thinking about him?
Find another guy. Make sure the next guy fits what you want.
