[Attitude]

Originally posted by Ðeucés

People like your ex-friend need to get READ. And I mean READ. You should have read his ass down in front of everybody. Make his reputation worse. Expose that phony. Ohh that pisses me off...I wish a ***** would!! You should have went in on his ass for being a fake popularity-thriving dickhead. I'm suddenly getting hot and bothered.

[BTrisc]

This thread made me realize how many evil mother****ers are going to hell.

[Hollywood.]

Originally posted by KoreanDream

Oh my God! I'm so sorry!

Thanks boo.

Originally posted by Ðeucés

Oh wow. I know that must have been hard on him and his family. His tea got spilled by his boyfriend. Sometimes what we say hurts more than what others say to us. I can name a few instance where I've said somethings..that hurt me as well as the other person.

I don't even really know how bad things got. I haven't spoken to him since... I see his brother weekly, as he comes to my apartment building to party, and a friend told me he quit his job over it too.

Originally posted by featheralley

D-a-m-n

Originally posted by ManDown

I am so so sorry. I've been in a situation like that before, and the feelings are just indescribable. It's worse than almost any other feeling in the world. I accidentally outted one of my exes, and he was suicidal over it, and I felt like it was my fault. But I'm glad you turned a terrible thing into a positive thing. It wasn't your fault.

Well it partially was my fault... regardless if I was drunk or not. Did you guys ever speak again?

Originally posted by Sahn

You didn't!

Gay people overreact to this kind of situations, very paranoids. With time he'll realize how stupid this things are... and who knows, maybe he'll come back.

I wouldn't say their overeacting at all. I believe gays should only come out when they, themselves are ready to. When someone forces them out in public, and they aren't ready for it, bad things can happen, and several have ended with suicides. From what I know, his family disgraced him, he lost several friends, and had to quit his job.... it ruined part of his life in a way.

[TakeItOff!]

They turned off a Lady GaGa song and said "this music is trash." THA ****.

[KoreanDream]

Originally posted by Jared

I've been through things that have been said in this thread like being called "******", being bullied, and judged on so I won't go into detail.

But I am going to say that I do not regret being bullied on or wish it never happened. Because they made me into the strong person that I am today. If some hater called me a "******" to my face (which I doubt they would have enough guts to actually do it) I would go IN on them and make them pray for mercy. Ain't no one gonna pull that **** with me.

I hope you all feel the same powerful way.

I am the EXACT same way! I was bullied until sophomore year BEYOND BELIEF, but I do not regret it at all because it has made the person I am today, which is a strong, fearless person. But it's also made me a person that is more understanding of all kinds of people and more accepting of who people are and what they go through. It's made me less judgmental than some people I know who weren't bullied.

The funny part was that I started dating this super hot junior in sophomore year then all htose stupid bitches that picked on me wanted to be my friends.

[Chemist]

Originally posted by satellites™

GIRL!

That and the "If you were a girl I would date you in a second" kill me.

LMAO

[Sahn]

Originally posted by satellites™

I wish someone would confuse me with a girl.

But I forgot how beautiful you are.

Thank you sis.

I used to have long STRAIGHT hair like a girl. What was my mom thinking?

[Callisto.]

Originally posted by satellites™

GIRL!

That and the "If you were a girl I would date you in a second" kill me.

deseury

[Chemist]

Originally posted by ManDown

I'm sorry, sis.

I had low self esteem in school, too. But I became good at faking it. I almost created an alter-ego for school. I would make people think that I was a strong, brave, carefree person that didn't have any problems or pain.

Right!! but at the end of the day it was me who was crying

[Knix]

Originally posted by J可愛い

My birthday was last Friday, and my best friend, came to my house before the party was started, she came with her sister ans with another friend, well she said that my party was a flop, and my Brother-in-low, was singing in the karaoke, and she said that he was awful and fat (well that was thue) but then she said that friday paties sucks, and i told her, WTH are you saying, Friday is the hot stuff right now, and i got really mad, so i said that skank that i don't care bout her or her friends, and i got angry,, i entered my house and took all my angriness over my sistah and bother-in-low, I know i screw it, but 30 minutes later, other friends came to my house, we dance, laughed, drink shot, and i ended puking on a already puked toilet in somewhere i dunno!

Yesterdey Morning was like



That's all my history.

it gon git b3tta

[KoreanDream]

Originally posted by ManDown

Right? That's how most religious people I know are. They only bring up their religion when it makes them seem like a better person than me. I don't understand why people are like that, though. People treat religion like a little black dress, and use it occasionally when it's "cool".

I know. Truly religious people are not like that at all.

[satellites.™]

Originally posted by ManDown

I think that I am one of the few gay people who remain unbothered by "******". I get called it DAILY, by family, strangers, neighbors, etc. It stopped bothering me in 7th grade. I don't usually take anything that anybody says too personally, as I've dealt with bullying and name calling my whole life.

People used to tease me about having a long forehead, but I got over that fairly quickly and am usually the first to make fivehead jokes (I think that is why I am destined to stan for Rihanna). People used to tease me about being underweight growing up, but I saw it as a compliment. People used to tease me about being fat when I was finally a healthy weight, but that just made me realize that other people are insecure. People used to tease me about being a ginger, but, well, I've always found it funny as well.

I'd say the most hurtful thing that anybody has said to me would be "I'm disappointed in you". I never heard that growing up, as my mom would rarely punish my brother and I. But, 2008 and 2009 were both extremely rough years for me, and only a few members know the full details on that situation. One day, I finally broke down and told my mom every bad thing that I have ever done, so I could get it off of my conscience, and she told me that she was disappointed in me. And that was the first time in my entire life that somebody has ever been able to hurt me with so few words.

Other than that, sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never hurt me.

I applaud you for being so brave, cause I could never tell me mom everything Ive done, its just too hard, and I am not ready for that yet.

[Ahmed.]

I lied about no one hurting my feelings, I remember one thing.

I travel around a lot, Canada to middle east, to Canada back to middle east. And we have multiple stops, like London and all. And every time I step into Germany or London they ****ing mistake me for a girl! WTF!

[EastCoastTM]

I had just got a perm and my boyfriend (he's white and didnt know anything about black hair) said :

"I thought a perm was suppose to straighten your hair?



Now he's the perfect boyfriend.

[Beyond Say]

Originally posted by TakeItOff!

They turned off a Lady GaGa song and said "this music is trash." THA ****.

Girl yes. I was in a Black student Union meeting at school, the radio was on, and Single Ladies came on. One of the girls turned off the radio and was like "I can't stand this overrated, talentless, racoon looking braud.: And mind you she looked like Raspusa's long lost twin. I was highly offended.

[TheMusicProphet]

Originally posted by Wildhope

that my sexual abuse was my fault and I caused it

You're so amazing and strong and something like that is never your fault. **** whoever said that ****.

Originally posted by Wildhope

We all should gather round and sing kumbaya
u guys are so strong <3

I really do you love you and everyone else in here.


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I love when we all unite and share stories with each other. It makes this place extra special.

[ManDown]

Originally posted by satellites™

GIRL!

That and the "If you were a girl I would date you in a second" kill me.

I've heard that before, and it pissed me off so much.

Also, the "if you lost/gained *insert number* pounds", "if you change your hair color", etc comments.

I'm not here for people wanting you to be something you're not.

Originally posted by HollywoodForever

Well it partially was my fault... regardless if I was drunk or not. Did you guys ever speak again?

You shouldn't blame yourself, though. He should have explained to you that he wasn't ready to come out to his family, and that you shouldn't mention it to them. It was an honest mistake, and if it upset him enough to where he didn't want to speak to you again, then it was his loss in the end. No, I never spoke to the guy again. He wrote me a 10-page long text about how I was the biggest piece of **** and he wished all these bad things on me. It was so immature of him, but I still felt like it was my fault for several months.

[Callisto.]

Originally posted by EastCoastTM

I had just got a perm and my boyfriend (he's white and didnt know anything about black hair) said :

"I thought a perm was suppose to straighten your hair?



Now he's the perfect boyfriend.

[primo.]

Originally posted by featheralley

I feel bad for him to be honest... Coming out isn't an easy thing...

It is and I feel bad for giving him an ultimatum because he told he had no plans on coming out to his family but I really cared for him.

[satellites.™]

Originally posted by featheralley

Right now, all my "friends" are females.

When I was younger all my friends were guys, we would talk on the phone everyday, hang out, etc. When we moved to high school, it was still the same but we just had more groups of friends, we would see each other outside of school, talk on the phone but just a tiny bit less since we had new friends. One of my best friends (guy) moved and I haven't talked to him in a year. He called me unexpectedly and I was surprised. I think it's because he wanted to get our previous school's number or something. I asked him how he was, and if he still calls the other guys we use to hang to. He said "I don't talk to guys on the phone anymore, I'm not gay" and I was just a little... I can't explain the feeling. But just knowing that's how he thought made me consider if I should do the same. Unfortunately, I didn't have to since all my friends now are girls anyways lol.

I used to be friends with boys when I was REALLY young, but as we grew, we both had different interests. I started liking boys (them sometimes) and they started liking girls. They wanted to talk about bitches and hoes and I wanted to talk about Beyonce and hairstyles. I just found girls more comforting and familiar, I used to want to be a girl so bad it killed me, it took me a long time to accept that I had to be a boy and live with it. When I was like 12 I used to want the operation to b a girl.