[ChapStick]

Originally posted by ManDown

You could atleast try it though. Sex is amazing, but it becomes addicting once you've had it. To be completely honest, I don't even really love sex that much. It's kind of boring (depending on what you're doing and who it's with). I'm more into pleasing the other person.

Lol. I think it depends on the person. I've had sex more than a handful of times but I've never become addicted. I don't think I ever will. It's one of those things where once you've had it you're like "Ok, what was all the fuss about?" It's fun, but it can be overhyped. :] Now just because I don't crave sex all the time doesn't mean I don't get turned on a lot. :P

[Rihdomination]

Why do people think that in a gay relationship one has to be a man and one has to be a woman...honestly if I wanted a woman I'll get one.....but I want a man...we're two men..and that's it......

[Queen Bea.]

Originally posted by Ruben

Where your boyfriend lives Bea?

Minnesota.

[ChapStick]

Originally posted by RatedG

It would at least seem more fun if you had a vagina, not that I would want one

Don't worry, there's no rush to have sex. But I can assure you, it's equally, if not more, pleasurable for the man in a man-woman rendezvous. :] I've never had sex with a woman, but I know enough people who have to know it's not only pleasurable for the person being penetrated.

[ManDown]

Originally posted by ReginaGeorge

I don't know why but is on my mind to be pregnant at the edge of 20 or 21, I wanna be a younger mom, I can't wait to be a mom!

That's awesome, gurl! I really wish I could get pregnant or something. I've always wanted to have kids, but I don't think I could ever adopt. It'd be too too weird for me haha.

Originally posted by RatedG

I would try it, but getting her pregnant would ruin her chances on staying on the badminton team (a pregnant woman can't run ).

I would use sex to please the other as well, because it doesn't seem as much fun as a male.

Just wear a condom and you should be okay! Out of all the times I've had sex, not one single condom has broken. You just have to be careful, and make sure you're both 100% ready. And trust me, you'll really enjoy sex when you have it. I guarantee.

Originally posted by ExtraChapstick

My brother didn't want to believe me at first. It took him a while to come around, but eventually he became the closest person I have to talk about my sexuality with. As for being treated like we were the same, my brother would be mean to certain kids in elementary school, and they'd tell me they couldn't be my friend because my brother was mean to them and that we're the same person... Lol. Those kids weren't very smart...

Aww, well it's great that he accepted it and you are able to talk to him openly about it! It seems like in today's society, it's nearly impossible to be open with just anyone about things like that. But that is so stupid that they did/said that. The same thing kind of happened to my younger brother though, so many people ended up not liking him because of the way I was and stuff. It's stupid.

Originally posted by Bea.

It is addictive. My BF lives in a different country and sometimes it's a long time until we see eachother.

When we do we tend to dissapear for 3-5 days.

Ahh, that would be really complicated / hard, having to wait that long to see eachother. Do you guys atleast Skype or something? That's what I've had to do in relationships that become long distance. But that's great that you guys spend your time wisely together!

[ChapStick]

Originally posted by stıcks

Idk, it just hasn't been talked about because I was banned twice for it (sort of), Celestial has put it behind her and is now a moderator, and Jimmy has basically fallen of the planet.

I was around during that time though, just not with this account. That's why I say I'm pretty sure I remember hearing something about it. Though I don't remember who was talking about it. :P This was a while back.

[ChapStick]

Originally posted by Bea.

Aww! Now that is a story

Haha. Thanks! What can I say? I love writing.

[Ruben]

Wow... that's so far, and you've been together for so long, how you guys make it work?

[Rihdomination]

Originally posted by ExtraChapstick

Haha. Thanks! What can I say? I love writing.

ur such a writing *****..i can't...........

[Rihdomination]

Has anyone ever had a 3 some before????

[ManDown]

Originally posted by ExtraChapstick

Lol. I think it depends on the person. I've had sex more than a handful of times but I've never become addicted. I don't think I ever will. It's one of those things where once you've had it you're like "Ok, what was all the fuss about?" It's fun, but it can be overhyped. :] Now just because I don't crave sex all the time doesn't mean I don't get turned on a lot. :P

Yeah, I agree. I wouldn't exactly call myself a sex addict either. Like I said, I don't even love sex that much. I can take it or leave it. But for me, it's more about pleasing the other person and making them happy. But I'm mildly asexual anyway. I can definitely relate to the last part though haha.

Originally posted by Rihdomination

Why do people think that in a gay relationship one has to be a man and one has to be a woman...honestly if I wanted a woman I'll get one.....but I want a man...we're two men..and that's it......

I agree with you sis. But people have the labels and stuff, it's stupid. I can't tell you how many times people are like "oh you're the 'girl' I'm assuming" and **** like that. It's like no, I'm just me.

[Queen Bea.]

Originally posted by ManDown

Ahh, that would be really complicated / hard, having to wait that long to see eachother. Do you guys atleast Skype or something? That's what I've had to do in relationships that become long distance. But that's great that you guys spend your time wisely together!

We skype everyday

I'm going over June 25th for 3 months We may elope.

[Knix]

Originally posted by Rihdomination

Has anyone ever had a 3 some before????

nope im a virgin, praise jesus

[ManDown]

Originally posted by Rihdomination

Has anyone ever had a 3 some before????

Just one. They aren't that good, at ALL. It's actually kind of weird. I was dating someone at the time and they thought it'd be a good idea and it could "save our relationship" and stuff. But no, it was terrible.

[Regina George]

Originally posted by ManDown

That's awesome, gurl! I really wish I could get pregnant or something. I've always wanted to have kids, but I don't think I could ever adopt. It'd be too too weird for me haha.

Gurl! adopt is a good option too +looks at Angelina and Brad+

[ChapStick]

Originally posted by ManDown

Oh no, it's the other way around for sure. Most of my best friends tell me they don't enjoy sex that much, they mostly just do it to please their boyfriend/partner. And it also depends on gender roles in relationships. For example, if you're assuming the role of the woman (aka the person that's bottoming), then your main goal/focus is pleasing your partner. But if you're the 'man' (aka the top), it's mostly about pleasing yourself. I don't know, I guess every relationship is different.

I think it really depends on the person. I know "tops" who are all about pleasing their partner, and "bottoms" who are all about pleasing THEIR partner. It's definitely more work for a top (unless he's being ridden) because he has to do all the work while the bottom just takes it. But, it is still hard for a bottom because he's the one who has to deal with discomfort at times :P The top just sticks it in and goes... haha. There are a wide variety of sexual relationships on earth. No one's is more right or wrong than another's generally speaking. People just love to explore sexuality.

[Rihdomination]

Originally posted by AlabasterFierce

nope im a virgin, praise jesus

SHUT THE **** UP!!!!!!!!!!!!!


DEAD!!!

I cannot

LET ME TAKE YOUR VIRGINITY NOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[Queen Bea.]

Originally posted by Ruben

Wow... that's so far, and you've been together for so long, how you guys make it work?

I live with him when I'm not at school. It's not easy but we really love eachother so we just...make it work.

I've known him since I was 12. He told me he loved me when I was 13. We have been together for 3 years solid. But 5 years including the time we decided it was just too hard to do long distance when we were so young.

[Orfeo]

@ExtraChapstick: I loved your story, I couln't stop reading.

[Rihdomination]

Originally posted by ManDown

Just one. They aren't that good, at ALL. It's actually kind of weird. I was dating someone at the time and they thought it'd be a good idea and it could "save our relationship" and stuff. But no, it was terrible.

That's messed up.........you should have dumped him the minute he asked for a 3 some...