Might be the reason too as they might not want to disappoint their family and maybe their religion doesn't condone gay relationship. I mean I used to hook up with this Christian guy who always feels bad after we had sex because he was afraid that Jesus is ready to burn him in hell
Girl i was camming with this guy once and halfway through he says, "i always feel bad about doing stuff like this because i am a christian and i think i won't go to heaven" I was gonna burst out laughing but i carried on
It's very selfish, heartless and inconsiderate what he's doing to his wife. I hope she finds out soon tbh
Exactly. This is why so many women contract HIV because of down-low men recklessly sleeping around with other men. The double life-style is disgusting, dishonest, and dangerous.
Girl i was camming with this guy once and halfway through he says, "i always feel bad about doing stuff like this because i am a christian and i think i won't go to heaven" I was gonna burst out laughing but i carried on
nnn one time this guy quoted Bible verses to me on Grindr. We had a great chat until he started to churn out Bible verses that we all will go to hell. It might play the biggest role in gay's decision to get married with woman and settled down. Do whatever they want but don't cheat on your woman. I hope they have protected with guys they hook up with
This is common in my country, Vietnam. A lot of gay men marry straight women to keep themselves in the closet. lol It's understandable but I feel bad for the women.
And the man in the OP is kinda ****ed. What made him think he could build a family while he can't even live his trueself? I hope he's in the situation I told above.
I think its just severe insecurity and the truth is I dont care where youre from, what you believe, how much money you have, the truth is youre a goddamn superstar and you were born gay
Exactly. This is why so many women contract HIV because of down-low men recklessly sleeping around with other men. The double life-style is disgusting, dishonest, and dangerous.
Reminds me in 'For Coloured Girls' -- Janet Jackson's character, Jo gets HIV due to her down-low, cheating husband.
Sucks for her. For him, eventually one fluffed guy he's been with will expose him for sure. If he's not sure where his sexually stands, marriage won't clear that up, might as well date the girl for a few years and see if the desire to be with a man is still there. I just recently had relations with a straight guy (I wasn't aware he was straight or that he had a gf) and when he came over he requested straight ****, so I asked him why and it wasn't until then that he revealed that he was on DL, he didn't mention it at all in his profile. What was worse, when we were done he answered a call from his gf screaming at him that he was a liar. So I know for a fact there are a ton of guys doing this.
If the guy is hot, no regrets. You're just helping him be sure of his true self.
If he ain't cute, girl better get some morals and dump him right now! Love yourself.
No married person, straight or gay, should be using hook-up apps w/o their spouses permission.
OT: We don't know this guys story. He could have been sincere about his commitment to his wife at the time and probably thought his attraction to men would eventually go away. That doesn't excuse his actions, though. While he may not be able to control his attraction to men, he can control downloading grinder and setting up dates for sex.
you either commit to the marriage or don't marry at all if you know you're a hunty.
it's kinda messed up and I understand the pressure and guilt society gives you if you're gay, but sis, don't do it just so you can break a woman's heart and her whole life. It's just not right.
To the people saying "expose him to his wife". Unless the OP is also friends with the wife, then he doesn't owe her anything, and it'd be weird af that some internet stranger is doing that.
Just offer the guy some advice, encouraging him to come clean and cut him off, or still continue ****ing him if you're that kind of person
