Something I'm trying to do now is embrace what I see around me. I find that it's very reciprocal. Instead of having all kinds of expectations, I try to go with the flow and let myself be guided by whatever. I really am thinking of getting a puppy or kitten. I'm so ready to try to settle down
Fine, I don't think there is such a thing as a full, secure, settle-down for me. But I like the idea of relaxing and taking the day by a minute or so, rather than being on the go and all over the place. There's something lovely about relaxing and caring for myself. I really like caring for others, also, so that's a bonus, if I'm with someone.
I used to think mods don't do it because they're not online, but I've noticed things recently.... 
