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Originally posted by AccioMiley
I broke up with my ex because she was flirting with another girl online. Now they're bffs and and even though we both said we'd be friends but we barely talk. I'm left with a broken heart that I've been stuck with for a year and a half. I told her I still love her and she basically told me she doesn't love me anymore. And I've been wondering if she ever loved me at all. We were together for 3 years and she got over me in less than a month. And Now my friends ignore me. My self esteem was already low in the first place and now it's non existent. I'm tired of seeking counseling because I constantly get jerked around. All I have is my dog lol but thank you so much for talking to me <3
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You never really stop loving someone, you just learn how to suppress the sentiments and memories. I went through the SAME EXACT thing. It's difficult for me to comprehend how anyone can just let go of someone like that unless they've been cheated on or severely betrayed. Maybe she's just buried the sentiment through another love.
You really just gotta learn to love yourself on your own. I did that and was extremely happy. I invented a new style for myself, made an effort to discover new music, began studying topics that really interested me, tried new things with new people, and eventually gained a new rebirth and confidence. But then I got a relationship and forgot how to love myself alone. Now I'm back at step one again, but I'm slowly working towards it. You definitely should put 100% focus on yourself right now, and try to find things that will build your ego, even if it's selfish
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Originally posted by Clueless
Mac is cuuuuute
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ikr, I can't handle it