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Originally posted by AccioMiley
Exactly. I tell them I need to talk and they ignore me. I know they've seen the messages bc it's Facebook messaging. I just feel so alone now. But thank you for talking to me  |
I fell in love with this guy a few months ago and he fell in love with me too but 3 months into it he randomly stopped responding to everything and kept finding excuses. I would investigate so much into it obsessively..then he broke up with me but still wanted to be friends. Devastatingly he just ignored me further, and it made me feel so lost getting ignored by the person I put my happiness dependent on. I stopped paying the attention my friends deserved because of him, and thus I became distant from them too. It was like I had no one.
Try not to lose your value in all this because I'm sure you're worth miles more than the friends who are ignoring you. If someone is unwilling to pay you the time of day you deserve, look elsewhere. Put yourself above them. The highest points in my life were when I learned to not correlate my loneliness with self worth.. Once you can do that you can truly be happy
I was just feeling the same exact way yesterday. Everyone was ignoring me! It feels like on the days I'm introverted and want nothing to do with people, that's suddenly when everyone wants to talk.. but when I need genuinely need the company of others, no one is there. It's tragic.
