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Discussion: Archived: Random Thoughts (#5)
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Originally posted by Dom
Literally feeling like dying, how do you cope with sadness, cause I am literally bawling my eyes out, my Lithuanian exam results have just been revealed and I was hit so hard, I literally feel like dying , I am depressed.
I got 29/100 , honestly I lost hope in getting to the college I want, I am literally done, what do I do with my life.
I f**kin was so happy about my exam essay, I poured my f**kin heart into it, I worked harder than I have ever, I read all the books that were needed to read, even the **** ones, which have over 1000+ pages without pictures and the concept of books is so ****, because our lithuanian literature has nothing to offer only books from very long back. And the exam then came I wrote a f**kin essay about "Manor in Lithuanian literature" because other topics were messed up and unintersting,
And today results came, and I'm done, my life is done, what do I do, my parents tell me to calm down, but I can I 'm crying and literally chocking on tears, honestly is life done? Please can someone offer any way out of this... because ...
Literally I hate Lithuania, this country is not for me. I hate the old people who grade these works, they simply see manor different than I do, and ruin my life.
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I am so sorry for you Dom, I hope you can figure out something. Can't you take it again some other time?
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Member Since: 1/1/2014
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Originally posted by SorryI'mLuke
Hmm, he has asked me out on many drives before. I've heard many stories about "drives"... I'd rather not risk going for a drive with a complete stranger anyway. I take care of my safety.
Ah, I totally get that. Well good luck for tonight. |
omg sis no, I value your safety too. I don't even do dating apps but it just seemed like you were leading him on kind of. Hopefully you find a more... safe guy 
and thanks. I'm just going to try and be friendly I guess. It won't kill me.
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Sometimes I wish I could wake up 10, 15 years from now with my husband in my bed and skip all the mess.
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My grandmother said to me that I style my hair like a girls and I'm just like "this is how it usually looks though"
Even my hair being femme wew lorde. Who knew?
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Member Since: 1/1/2014
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Originally posted by Ryan Bálor
1) He seems a bit pushy. Knowing how much of a big deal it is for you to even agree to meet with him should be respected and appreciated
2) I love that you refer to your **** as your "winky". It's high key cute AF.
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I feel like it's not being pushy to ask someone from a dating app to meet up 
Like that is the norm... too many games are being played.
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Originally posted by DoubleDutchess
Sometimes I wish I could wake up 10, 15 years from now with my husband in my bed and skip all the mess.
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Despite what most people say, life is long, literally, it is the longest thing you will ever experience! so enjoy the mess and the pain because that'll just make the happy moments in your life all the more better!
My uncle has been with his husband for over 30 years and the only issue they've encountered so far is the husbands impotency! (mind you, he's like 30 years older than my uncle!) I aim to have such a lasting relationship! no i dont, **** that. i aim to be a ****ing slvt
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Member Since: 4/28/2012
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Originally posted by accelgors
why does that guy's username look like mine
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that... guy...? Leave.
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Member Since: 8/19/2013
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Originally posted by Jezang Looz
omg sis no, I value your safety too. I don't even do dating apps but it just seemed like you were leading him on kind of. Hopefully you find a more... safe guy
and thanks. I'm just going to try and be friendly I guess. It won't kill me. |
I wasn't leading him on when I literally asked him to go out the Saturday that just went and then this following Friday/Saturday coming, I couldn't possibly be leading him on.
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Originally posted by Ryan Bálor
1) He seems a bit pushy. Knowing how much of a big deal it is for you to even agree to meet with him should be respected and appreciated
2) I love that you refer to your **** as your "winky". It's high key cute AF.
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Yeah, it's just a bit of a "I want you to meet me now, idc if this is your first time and I don't wanna wait until the weekend"
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Member Since: 8/18/2013
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they wearing it wrong
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Originally posted by SorryI'mLuke
I wasn't leading him on when I literally asked him to go out the Saturday that just went and then this following Friday/Saturday coming, I couldn't possibly be leading him on.
Yeah, it's just a bit of a "I want you to meet me now, idc if this is your first time and I don't wanna wait until the weekend"
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From my experience, most of the time when people hesitate to meet it never happens.
But I'll be perched this weekend to see what happens. I'm rooting for y'all 
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Member Since: 5/27/2016
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Originally posted by #ayylmao
Despite what most people say, life is long, literally, it is the longest thing you will ever experience! so enjoy the mess and the pain because that'll just make the happy moments in your life all the more better!
My uncle has been with his husband for over 30 years and the only issue they've encountered so far is the husbands impotency! (mind you, he's like 30 years older than my uncle!) I aim to have such a lasting relationship! no i dont, **** that. i aim to be a ****ing slvt
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Yeah, I guess so.
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Originally posted by Jezang Looz
From my experience, most of the time when people hesitate to meet it never happens.
But I'll be perched this weekend to see what happens. I'm rooting for y'all
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But I wasn't the reason we didn't meet Saturday
I was literally all dressed up, ready, I was texting him every hour for an update and he told me he might be late, it came 11pm and I was still gonna go out and meet him but he said no, his "mum is dragging him to the pub with her".
If I was willing to meet up then, there's no reason why I wouldn't meet him this weekend.
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Just move on to the next I guess. '-'
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Originally posted by SorryI'mLuke
But I wasn't the reason we didn't meet Saturday
I was literally all dressed up, ready, I was texting him every hour for an update and he told me he might be late, it came 11pm and I was still gonna go out and meet him but he said no, his "mum is dragging him to the pub with her".
If I was willing to meet up then, there's no reason why I wouldn't meet him this weekend. |
inb4 he can't meet again this weekend, but asks you to go for a drive on a different day and then you say no. The back and forth is a turn off, tbh. But what plans did y'all make for the weekend? Where are y'all going/planning to do?
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Member Since: 4/28/2012
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Still in complete shock over my uncle. 
He really struggled on and off with drugs his entire life. He battled with bipolar disorder and he was also very neglected by certain family members whenever he had boyfriends. Like, how could you do that to your own family member over something like that? It truly disgusts me that I am related to people like that.
He was just such a kindhearted man and he was so knowledgeable and had so much to offer to the world. He had so much unused and wasted potential. 
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Originally posted by Jezang Looz
inb4 he can't meet again this weekend, but asks you to go for a drive on a different day and then you say no. The back and forth is a turn off, tbh. But what plans did y'all make for the weekend? Where are y'all going/planning to do?
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We were just gonna go to a club.
If he can't meet this weekend, I'm just not gonna bother, this whole thing has really turned me off him.
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my crush actually messaged me... I might or might not have a stupid grin on my face...
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Member Since: 1/1/2014
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Originally posted by SorryI'mLuke
We were just gonna go to a club.
If he can't meet this weekend, I'm just not gonna bother, this whole thing has really turned me off him.
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People cancel on me all of the time so that's why I sound salty, it's one of my pet peeves. I understand if something major happens, but otherwise I just see you as unreliable. gl tho, a club seems fun for a first date 
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Originally posted by Jezang Looz
People cancel on me all of the time so that's why I sound salty, it's one of my pet peeves. I understand if something major happens, but otherwise I just see you as unreliable. gl tho, a club seems fun for a first date |
Understandable but technically he's the one that cancelled on me. 
A suggested a club cause there's alcohol and I've already told him I'm quite anxious, so alcohol will help me with socialising.
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