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Originally posted by Corsola
ok @ anyone who paid attention to what i said earlier about if i should send a message or not:
i had to listen to my gut and basically ignored everyone telling me not to get involved but i sent the message to my friend first just in case. i wanted to all out drag but i kept it super civil cause it's not really my place to drag.
p.s. I was actually lowkey involved in their fight but only in the sense that I was with my friend the entire time and his boyfriend was accusing him of stuff etc so I just wanted to clear up any misunderstandings.
anyway i made it super clear in what i said that it was 100% my decision to send it and not my friends and that i could even provide receipts that he didn't want me to. he said he'll pretend to be pissed at me but i really don't care I just felt I needed to say something cause it was super bad and not just some regular argument
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see, i don't think you should always stay out of other people's relationship stuff necessarily, but punishment towards an abuse victim is a serious threat, so i don't really like intervening in a situation like that :S your choice in the end and i don't fully know the situation, but i hope you didn't make things worse for him