Just had a 3hr convo with my dad:
Ok, well my dad did cheat 8 yrs ago... i really did not expect that... at all. But
@ my dad having game.
However this time, he did not cheat. I've been noticing it for awhile, but my mom is falling into a depression similar to mine 2 years back. She never leaves the house. Watches TV all the time. Has no friends. Overthinks. Thinks TV dramas happen irl easily.
Then i asked my psych, & she is done with her chemo and apparently it is very common for u to fall into a clinical depression after.
My dad was talking to be abt divorce cuz he don't love her no more, which i suspected 2 yrs ago so no shcoker. But a divorce now would monetarily wreck us. I hope he again puts our happiness b4 his just for a few more years.
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The worst part is my mom is melting DOWN on my 14 yr old sister's texts right now. Her depression is getting to her & she should not be telling my sister abt the affair or these things. She is pulling the pity card & scaring the crap out of my sis right now. It's very obvious her intention is to get my sister on her side if the divorce happens. Hopefully all the insults & mental abuse i put my sister thru as a child ill help her rationalize this like i told her to.
I'm waiting for her to come home so i can explain this to her properly.
