its just a theory. i think were wired the same/similar way as women are (and theres some science to support this) . in that (assuming straight) women want manly men, to help raise the children and protect the family. Us gays are the same, we want manly men. the thing is that other gay men are feminine and by nature we turn to straight men.
but since straight men are well, straight the gay community ( as a whole ) builds this fetishism on the 'ideal' perfect mate - which are straight men.
idk thats just my take.
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plus straight men are virgins if you know what i mean
