I appreciate that you guys are listening to what I have to say. I am glad we can be real when it comes to our fave. I wouldn't say this stuff if I didn't care.
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Originally posted by M A R C
Are you saying she practiced coke during mid TTT and beginning of UNA era?
Because she was very thin during that period of time.
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I thought this was an unspoken but known stan fact. Between the grief about Gran Gran Dolly and getting back with Chris, who at the time had terrible drug habits... looking back it looks so unhealthy. But she had an album and big songs and she promoted... so we didn't worry about it.
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Originally posted by FatShady
Chem you've always been lowkey one of my fave nhevis. I hope you're not seriously shaken by this.
On the outside looking in its natural for us to want to judge but its none of our business. I've even come to accept that even though R8 isn't going how I would have planned, neither have any of her eras and I love all her eras!!
Remember this???

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It's really interesting, because I wasn't a stan in 2012 but I still defended her. It was sad to watch everything fall apart, but I understood why they reunited. They had history and needed closure.
There is something very different this time. There's no album (I don't think R8 ever really existed. Just a million recorded songs and no direction) to distract us, no social media interaction, nothing outside of product promotion. She just seems really isolated. I am damn worried about her. It's not judgement per se... I just see terrible things happening. The dread we all felt when she got back with Crhis, but worse. With Chris I just worried about her looking like a fool. Now I am worried about her health and well-being.
Am I seriously shaken by it? My life will go on just fine. I just don't recognize Rih right now and it's clear her support system has completely failed. It shouldn't have gotten to this point. I want other fans to understand exactly how bad this is. I can't stomach the caping and deflecting. If we're all on the same page, the dialogue re: Rih and R8 will be much better.