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Originally posted by Fireman25
But what if the person your're with ( who has pale skin) what's to go tanning? Tanning is popular especially with us white folks. We don't see pale skin as being sexy. We like to have some color. What you're going to do leave that person? It sounds like you just want to be with someone just because of the skin color they have and putting it on a high pedestal and it kinda comes of as self hating to me.
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Originally posted by Randall
 I don't even know how to reply to this...
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Originally posted by karron0624
SMH.
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You guys (and the others) are reading TOO MUCH into this. Chill.
1) read my post again. I NEVER said that I will never date black/dark skin people. I open to that possibility if I ever fall in love with them. Personality is number 1 for me.
2) It shows how people over-consider everything as racism or self-hatred or whatever you call it. GROW UP! It's like having a preference of BEARS over TWINKS. It is PREFERENCE. It's not like I was saying I DO NOT DATE any other races. I just love Caucasian men more, with noo intention of DEGRADING other kinds of men. IS IT WRONG? It's like you just want to get married with a man and you are being called SEXIST -- yes, it's stupid.
3) OH, and I do not even bleach my skin like any other dark-skinned Asians. I am proud with my physical feature AND dark skin. Drooling over men with pale-skin DOES NOT MEAN that I want pale/fair skin myself.
Please give me a lesson if you guys see that I have something wrong. I'm willing to learn.