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Discussion: NBSB: No Boyfriend Since Birth
Member Since: 3/26/2011
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Originally posted by itsAllen
#clapback. He wasn't deserving. And lucky you tbh.
I feel the same with Gaga. Her music got me through so much confusion and sadness. |
I'm pretty proud of the moment - she didn't even tweet for days when it happened.
Basically me too. BTW got me through 2011 due to that being the year I got outed and all.
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Originally posted by materialboy
Did you find ?
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I have actually, but obviously distance was a big "**** you".
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Originally posted by Attitude
I'm not here for online dating.
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I hate it too but there are some nice guys to at least speak to.
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Originally posted by materialboy
I'd like to have like the one you describe
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Be him if you want. 
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Member Since: 9/9/2012
Posts: 59,872
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Originally posted by Latch
This is not a jab at you personally,
but another thing that makes it hard is that our community discriminates on the basis of things like gays who aren't "straight acting"
I see the room for their argument because I mean we're gay, we like men, and we've grown up in a society that has presented us with certain norms about how men are supposed to behave, so naturally we associate some behaviors with femininity
But, I can't help it that I'm not the image of some Corbin Fisher college football jock
Yes, I have the Single Ladies choreo memorized and yes I spend most of my day on an online forum calling other men "sis" and gossipping about celebs,
but I'm still a man
I'm still here
Lord
Pretty Hurts
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I like that Beyonce got you for these equality speeches
but gurl
I am not into women. Therefore I do not want a man who acts/resembles/looks like a woman.
Idk how me, as a gay, am suppose to be into that?
I'm not even asking for a FULL straight like masculine man. Have the kinda gay voice like me, but damn. I don't want no man with his hair dyed 3 different colors, nails painted, or always rapping some Nicki Minaj.
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Member Since: 3/26/2011
Posts: 22,809
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Originally posted by hello_world
I'm not quite sure whether to be offended but ok.
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Don't be. I just mean that if you're single and sad, it's all good - just cry about it in here. 
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Member Since: 3/15/2013
Posts: 43,126
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Originally posted by Latch
This is not a jab at you personally,
but another thing that makes it hard is that our community discriminates on the basis of things like gays who aren't "straight acting"
I see the room for their argument because I mean we're gay, we like men, and we've grown up in a society that has presented us with certain norms about how men are supposed to behave, so naturally we associate some behaviors with femininity
But, I can't help it that I'm not the image of some Corbin Fisher college football jock
Yes, I have the Single Ladies choreo memorized and yes I spend most of my day on an online forum calling other men "sis" and gossipping about celebs,
but I'm still a man
I'm still here
Lord
Pretty Hurts
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Preach the gospel
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Member Since: 9/1/2013
Posts: 17,161
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Originally posted by MrMinum
Be him if you want.
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So close yet so far
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Member Since: 8/19/2013
Posts: 10,844
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at least most of you are under 20
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Member Since: 1/1/2014
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unfortunately... 
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Member Since: 2/2/2014
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Member Since: 3/26/2011
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Originally posted by materialboy
So close yet so far
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Member Since: 8/19/2013
Posts: 11,808
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The idea that we should have to "come out" as dumb as **** anyway
That just further perpetuates the idea that being gay is something abnormal that deserves a lot of attention
It should just be like,
"Hey, mom, I met a nice boy. We been trading nudes talking for a while now.
I invited him over to dinner, so make sure you wash the good plates."
But, no
We have to feel pressured into hiding this about ourselves until the right time and then revealing it in some unnecessarily emotional sit-down filled with either lots of hugs, lots of swearing or both
Like it's a damn cancer or something
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Member Since: 9/1/2013
Posts: 17,161
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Originally posted by iHypeMusic
I like that Beyonce got you for these equality speeches
but gurl
I am not into women. Therefore I do not want a man who acts/resembles/looks like a woman.
Idk how me, as a gay, am suppose to be into that?
I'm not even asking for a FULL straight like masculine man. Have the kinda gay voice like me, but damn. I don't want no man with his hair dyed 3 different colors, nails painted, or always rapping some Nicki Minaj.
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Not all of you spilling the tea.
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Member Since: 3/15/2013
Posts: 7,833
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Originally posted by MrMinum
I just want a cute guy to cuddle, play games with and just eat junk food with. I care about sex but it's not a huge thing to me.
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i legit want the same thing 
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Member Since: 4/10/2011
Posts: 14,331
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Originally posted by Latch
This is not a jab at you personally,
but another thing that makes it hard is that our community discriminates on the basis of things like gays who aren't "straight acting"
I see the room for their argument because I mean we're gay, we like men, and we've grown up in a society that has presented us with certain norms about how men are supposed to behave, so naturally we associate some behaviors with femininity
But, I can't help it that I'm not the image of some Corbin Fisher college football jock
Yes, I have the Single Ladies choreo memorized and yes I spend most of my day on an online forum calling other men "sis" and gossipping about celebs,
but I'm still a man
I'm still here
Lord
Pretty Hurts
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This is beautiful.
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Originally posted by iHypeMusic
I like that Beyonce got you for these equality speeches
but gurl
I am not into women. Therefore I do not want a man who acts/resembles/looks like a woman.
Idk how me, as a gay, am suppose to be into that?
I'm not even asking for a FULL straight like masculine man. Have the kinda gay voice like me, but damn. I don't want no man with his hair dyed 3 different colors, nails painted, or always rapping some Nicki Minaj.
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Agreed, I really don't ask for too much.
I just don't want to be with a drag queen or with someone who wants to be called princess 
I literally had a guy tell me everyone calls him princess, that aint cute to me...sorry...
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Member Since: 11/27/2008
Posts: 78,826
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Originally posted by itsAllen
Oh, ok. Glad you did your research and was smart about it.
One of my friends, whom is female, thought she was talking to this guy in Alabama
and found out THREE years later it was a SHE
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Ouch
The pictures he sent me on my phone also match one on his Facebook account. So he has to be real.
He said he's shy but I really don't understand why it's so hard to just pick up the phone when *69
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Member Since: 9/1/2013
Posts: 17,161
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Are most of you hiding your sexuality and preferences ?
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Member Since: 4/10/2011
Posts: 14,331
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Originally posted by Latch
It should just be like,
"Hey, mom, I met a nice boy. We been trading nudes talking for a while now.
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Member Since: 1/1/2014
Posts: 14,803
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Originally posted by Latch
The idea that we should have to "come out" as dumb as **** anyway
That just further perpetuates the idea that being gay is something abnormal that deserves a lot of attention
It should just be like,
"Hey, mom, I met a nice boy. We been trading nudes talking for a while now.
I invited him over to dinner, so make sure you wash the good plates."
But, no
We have to feel pressured into hiding this about ourselves until the right time and then revealing it in some unnecessarily emotional sit-down filled with either lots of hugs, lots of swearing or both
Like it's a damn cancer or something
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All of this.
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Member Since: 4/10/2011
Posts: 14,331
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Originally posted by MusicLoverDude
Ouch
The pictures he sent me on my phone also match one on his Facebook account. So he has to be real.
He said he's shy but I really don't understand why it's so hard to just pick up the phone when *69 |
Or skype
How long have y'all been talking? And where do you live?
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Member Since: 4/10/2011
Posts: 14,331
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Originally posted by materialboy
Are most of you hiding your sexuality and preferences ?
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What do you mean?
I am closeted although most people probably know.
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Member Since: 8/19/2013
Posts: 11,808
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Originally posted by iHypeMusic
I like that Beyonce got you for these equality speeches
but gurl
I am not into women. Therefore I do not want a man who acts/resembles/looks like a woman.
Idk how me, as a gay, am suppose to be into that?
I'm not even asking for a FULL straight like masculine man. Have the kinda gay voice like me, but damn. I don't want no man with his hair dyed 3 different colors, nails painted, or always rapping some Nicki Minaj.
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Well, yeah I understand that sis
It's no shade at all
I don't want Pepper LaBeija poking at my holes either
I'm just saying it's weird how we're conditioned to think this way
We got gays tryna fit themselves into gender roles like they aren't in a homosexual relationship
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