[Mezik]

Originally posted by SpinThatShhh

I want him but...I dont know. Everyone around me is saying I need to loose him for a min as thats the only way I will move on. But, idk.

Stop listening to what everyone around you is saying because they're not you. You're the only one who knows what will make you happy and you don't want to make a decision based off of what people who rarely know your situation say? If you do you may regret it..

It's your happiness you need to worry about, not anybody else.

[Homogenic]

Originally posted by SpinThatShhh

Maybe they're bunking due to West Coast.

Oh, that would be too perfect even of him. He's into some trap music, as far as I'm concerned.

[kwek_kwek]

Originally posted by Quiqui4eva

I don't know why all of you guys have grindrs

You can find the nearest hot guys to your location

I also have Jack'd and Hornet

[SpinThatShhh]

Originally posted by Homogenic

Oh, that would be too perfect even of him. He's into some trap music, as far as I'm concerned.

He stans for Jewels N' Drugs i c. i c.

[AllEyesOnUz]

Originally posted by Mezik

Sorry I rather find a committed relationship than just find someone who wants "fun".

I'm just not going to hook up with anyone / anything.

i meant the reason y'all are single is bc you have GRINDR

[Mezik]

Originally posted by AllEyesOnUz

i meant the reason y'all are single is bc you have GRINDR

I don't have it.

I said people who use Grindr aren't any worst than those guys who go out every night for the sole purpose of trying to find someone to sleep with. Just one's publicly shamed upon and for some reason the other routine is glorified.

[Quiqui4eva]

Originally posted by Mezik

It's nothing different though than those people who go out specifically to find someone to hook up with.

You are absolutely right! But I'm classy so that's not me

[AllEyesOnUz]

Originally posted by Mezik

I don't have it.

I said people who use Grindr aren't any worst than those guys who go out every night for the sole purpose of trying to find someone to sleep with. Just one's publicly shamed upon and for some reason the other routine is glorified.

oh ok we agree then

[SpinThatShhh]

Originally posted by Mezik

Stop listening to what everyone around you is saying because they're not you. You're the only one who knows what will make you happy and you don't want to make a decision based off of what people who rarely know your situation say? If you do you may regret it..

It's your happiness you need to worry about, not anybody else.

Maybe. But, im only happy when I'm with him. Which is sorta a problem because i should be happy more often. idk.

[Quiqui4eva]

Originally posted by SpinThatShhh

Maybe. But, im only happy when I'm with him. Which is sorta a problem because i should be happy more often. idk.

And that's why you should axe this "you" time. You just solved your dilemma. Y'all are match made in Heaven!

[marajxgrant]

Originally posted by SpinThatShhh

Maybe. But, im only happy when I'm with him. Which is sorta a problem because i should be happy more often. idk.

your happiness should stem from yourself, not him. You should find somebody that yo can be happy with, not someone who is the reason you're happy.

[Mezik]

Originally posted by SpinThatShhh

Maybe. But, im only happy when I'm with him. Which is sorta a problem because i should be happy more often. idk.

Sometimes it takes a special person to make you happy. When I was seeing the guy I liked, I was in a really bad state and had troubles being happy. I just came out to everyone and was a nervous wreck, got into a serious car accident and found out my nana was diagnosed with terminal cancer. When I was with him / talking with him those were the only moments I truly felt happy and it was because he brought out my happiness.

Maybe you see it that you're only happy with him because it's still the beginning of your relationship? Also reading this it seems like the two of you got into a bit of arguments. Maybe if you just take it at a slower pace, not leave him, than it'll be better? And then again it may just be because he brings out your happiness better than anyone else.

[Chanel4]

Originally posted by Mezik

That isn't necessary a bad thing. When someones in a relationship, they want everyone to know who their dating not because they want to out them, but because they want it to feel sincere, because they're proud of who their boyfriend is and they love them. I can totally see where he's coming from, he probably went through a phase where he lived in the closet and he probably doesn't want to live in the closet through someone else.

yeah i know. it's completely understandable. It's just sad that we cant be together rn.

[Homogenic]

Originally posted by SpinThatShhh

He stans for Jewels N' Drugs i c. i c.

aww, Spin, you've made me smile two times in a row. Let me you

[hardbrit]

I hate having windows phone.... I have no grindr! I have to know if my crush is using it!

[Quiqui4eva]

Originally posted by hardbrit

I hate having windows phone.... I have no grindr! I have to know if my crush is using it!

Yea that's like the only thing about it. I'll do the same tbh

[hardbrit]

Originally posted by Quiqui4eva

Yea that's like the only thing about it. I'll do the same tbh

What will you do? idgi

[Quiqui4eva]

Originally posted by hardbrit

What will you do? idgi

Get a grindr to see if my crush is on there

[PurrKaty]

Originally posted by Quiqui4eva

Get a grindr to see if my crush is on there

I do the same thing... I've even downloaded the app and drove to there house to see if they'd be the closest and still nothing #stalker haha

[hardbrit]

Originally posted by Quiqui4eva

Get a grindr to see if my crush is on there

I hate my phone SO MUCH...It's crap! I WISHED I had something else to check