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				You put him through a lot is all i'm saying.  
& you love him. don't just smack on a smile, mean it. 
			
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 I will. But, with him being away for 7 more weeks, I know my ****ty self will end up doing something I regret, idk what to do. I will be honest with him and ask for his advise.  
 
  
 
 
  
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				I will. But, with him being away for 7 more weeks, I know my ****ty self will end up doing something I regret, idk what to do. I will be honest with him and ask for his advise.  
			
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 if you truly love him as much as you profess on this forum thread, then you won't cheat. You won't do it. You may think about it, but your love for him will most likely stop you from ever completing those actions. But yes, be honest with him. Ask him for his advice.  
 
  
 
 
  
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 and I always find this dilemma of having to decide weather I should limit my relationships with some guys I meet up with to booty calls or let it flourish into something more  
  
 
  
 
 
  
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				and I always find this dilemma of having to decide weather I should limit my relationships with some guys I meet up with to booty calls or let it flourish into something more  
  
			
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				if you truly love him as much as you profess on this forum thread, then you won't cheat. You won't do it. You may think about it, but your love for him will most likely stop you from ever completing those actions. But yes, be honest with him. Ask him for his advice. 
			
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 Thanks for everything.   
But, its so complicated. Ive crushed on her since I started Middle School. Se became serious in High School. She was must first in everything. We even went as far as buying a house together. Its just a mess. I get what you are saying but, there are just 8 years worth of feelings attacted to that girl. Its hard to remove them in 11 months.  
 
  
 
 
  
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				I will. But, with him being away for 7 more weeks, I know my ****ty self will end up doing something I regret, idk what to do. I will be honest with him and ask for his advise.  
			
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Give him a going away present    
 
  
 
 
  
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				Thanks for everything.   
But, its so complicated. Ive crushed on her since I started Middle School. Se became serious in High School. She was must first in everything. We even went as far as buying a house together. Its just a mess. I get what you are saying but, there are just 8 years worth of feelings attacted to that girl. Its hard to remove them in 11 months.  
			
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 oh no, i know what you're saying. i still have mad feelings for my first ex. Thinking about him makes me physically sore. But you just have to power through it. You mustn't go backwards for someone when time is speeding ahead. you'll only mess yourself up even more. 
& no problem    it's what i do.  
 
  
 
 
  
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				Give him a going away present    
			
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 Trust me he wants one.   
But with me, when sex gets involved things get messy. (No pun intended)  
 
  
 
 
  
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				I like this dude who's got this mixture of douchbage & nice guy traits , I don't know why but even though he's average looking his features are appealing , we met through a dating website and each time we meet we just go to a sauna/bathhouse where we get steamy and do it and then split , so I'm torn because I like him but I kind of feel like he got the kind of personality that you wouldn't want a bf to have and should be kept as a booty call 
yeah , so that's that
   
			
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 I'd like to get some says on this situation though 
  
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				I like this dude who's got this mixture of douchbage & nice guy traits , I don't know why but even though he's average looking his features are appealing , we met through a dating website and each time we meet we just go to a sauna/bathhouse where we get steamy and do it and then split , so I'm torn because I like him but I kind of feel like he got the kind of personality that you wouldn't want a bf to have and should be kept as a booty call 
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 interesting. If i were you, i'd cut him off. I would never mess w/people who have qualities i don't like.  
 
  
 
 
  
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				interesting. If i were you, i'd cut him off. I would never mess w/people who have qualities i don't like. 
			
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 to be honest I never text him back and rarely respond to his calls so I'm cutting him off most of the time , even though I love our intense and animalistic love making , I just feel like he'd only cut it as a booty call for me , he's not that smart we don't have a lot in common , do you have any experiences with booty calls ?  
 
  
 
 
  
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				to be honest I never text him back and rarely respond to his calls so I'm cutting him off most of the time , even though I love our intense and animalistic love making , I just feel like he'd only cut it as a booty call for me , he's not that smart we don't have a lot in common , do you have any experiences with booty calls ?  
			
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 me personally, no. I retain my reputation of only engaging in sexual activity when i'm in a relationship. but there are others that have experience. 
& he sounds like a waste of time quite honestly. Good dick or not.  
 
  
 
 
  
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 They're both texting me at the same time.   
I told her I moved on and shes still trying it, im weak.  
 
  
 
 
  
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				They're both texting me at the same time.   
I told her I moved on and shes still trying it, im weak.  
			
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				stop replying to the girl. 
			
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 She seems lonely tho.   
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				She seems lonely tho.   
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 even if she lived on the street you shouldn't be bothered with her anymore.  
 
  
 
 
  
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				even if she lived on the street you shouldn't be bothered with her anymore. 
			
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 Probably right. 
You have good advise, Daniel. Maybe you should take some of your own sometime.    
 
  
 
 
  
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				She seems lonely tho.   
I feel sorry for her.    
			
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 Spin i love yah, but Ive told you this once and im saying it again, 
 
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Yes, we do     
			
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 how do you manage to keep from growing feelings towards those partners with which you share those no stings attached/booty call relationships ? 
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				me personally, no. I retain my reputation of only engaging in sexual activity when i'm in a relationship. but there are others that have experience. 
& he sounds like a waste of time quite honestly. Good dick or not. 
			
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 that's exactly what I think of him , well I'm not reaching out to him when he does try to contact me I'll just ignore it although I'm a horny mess and can never decline a hook-up offer 
  
 
  
 
 
  
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 @spin you sound like your in desperate need of a closure 
 
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