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Originally posted by AstroBall
Okay, but why are you unattracted to a whole race? Tell me what makes you unattracted to a whole group of people and not just one single person?
If anyone can tell me why they would be unattracted to a whole group of people that would be great.
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attraction isn't something you can control. at best it's something you can maintain, but whether you're attracted to certain people or traits or not isn't something you can control and repurpose like some kind of behavior you can get rid of over time.
being attracted to someone =/= treating people differently
do you treat people differently just because you're not attracted to them? no. you're just not attracted to them either sexually or romantically.
what is it about this concept nobody understands?