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Originally posted by Mezik
Sorry, I'm seriously confused by all this. (And interested)

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Ok so like
When you're born, you either have a *** or a dick (or intersex but that's a WHOLE other thing).
So if you have a ***, the doctor will say "this is a girl!" and if you have a dick the doctor will say "this is a boy!". What he's doing is assigning your gender identity based on your outward appearance and your sexual organs.
So let's say you live all your life and you identify as a male and you were assigned male at birth, then boom you're "cisgendered". "cis" refers to bond of electrons or atoms I believe. There's "trans" bonds and "cis" bonds. The "cis" bonds are on the same line, while the "trans" bond are diagonal.
Like so
0 0 cis
0
......... 0 trans
So basically if you identify on the same "line", then you're cis. We used to just say normal but that's really offensive
So if you go your life assigned as male, but you start to realize you identify more as female, then you are transgender. If you get sexual reassignment surgery on your organs, you're technically a transsexual. It's easier to use trans* to describe the umbrella of trans people.
Then there's all these other genders on the spectrum between man and woman. It's a lot so I won't go into it. Google some stuff, I'd avoid tumblr since a lot of it is bias or misinformation.