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Originally posted by Cain
Life is going way too fast.
I don't know what I wanna do with my future, I feel like I'm stuck. 
The only thing I do is feel miserable and worry all day long.
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If it makes you feel any better, everyone feels like that at one point. Honestly, I'm not just saying that. Some people may act like they have it all together and know exactly what they're doing and it may appear like that but on the inside they're just as worried and freaked out about their future as everyone else is. People especially feel like that when their senior year of high school is ending and they're going to college, because it's such a big change and it feels like you're literally being pushed into adulthood before you're ready. I had a mini breakdown my last couple months of senior year and a couple months after I graduated, but then it leveled out and I realized it wasn't as bad as I thought it was going to be. Yeah, you might not know what you're going to end up doing as a career, but it's alright you don't have to figure it out when you're 18, or 21, or however old you are. You have the rest of your life to start new things and find out what you really love and what your passion is, you don't have to figure it out as soon as you get out of high school or college even though people make it seem like that, that's bull. Some people don't realize how they want their life to be until they're in their 30's, 40's, or even later, and that's completely fine. Just realize that you are going on your own time, not anybody else's. If it takes you a little longer to figure out what you wanna do, that's great because you're going at your own pace. Don't let other people tell you that you have to do this or that at this age or in this time period of blah blah blah. Your teens and 20's are supposed to be about self discovery and trying things out (and possibly failing, but that's ok because you learned that you didn't like something and as long as you learn something, it's not really a failure), not making permanent decisions and deciding the next 60 years of your life. You can do whatever you want whenever you want.
That turned out pretty long but I had a lot to say, sorry
