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Poll: Do fem guys bother you?
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View Poll Results: Well?
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Member Since: 4/9/2012
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Originally posted by Heisenberg
But not all gay people are the same. Overtly feminine gay men are not "just like me". .Just like not all black/white/hispanic/asian(etc) people are the same. I agree that everyone should be accepted and tolerated, but that doesn't mean all gay people have to like each other. |
adsaskindasdas @ you not getting what I said at all. I meant we are all GAY, not the SAME PERSON, i.e. personality and etc. I'm saying if we can't accept all gay people no matter personality, then why should the majority of people in society accept us no matter sexuality?
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Member Since: 12/21/2011
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Originally posted by Run The World
Like if you're a gay man, just act like a man, because YOU ARE a man. not a girl.
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Member Since: 8/2/2010
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Quote:
Originally posted by Run The World
Like if you're a gay man, just act like a man, because YOU ARE a man. not a girl.
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Obviously Beautiful was lost on you, Xtina would not be proud.
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Member Since: 2/27/2012
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At the end of the day i cant help how i feel, masculine girls scare me just as much as feminime men..idk why but thats how i feel period. I have to go to bed now cause i have work in the morning.
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Member Since: 12/21/2010
Posts: 51,088
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Originally posted by Run The World
Like if you're a gay man, just act like a man, because YOU ARE a man. not a girl.
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OKAY GIRL.
I'M THROWING ELBOWS.
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Member Since: 3/22/2012
Posts: 26,321
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Quote:
Originally posted by Run The World
Like if you're a gay man, just act like a man, because YOU ARE a man. not a girl.
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DATS WHAT IM SAYIN GIRL LIKE ****
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Member Since: 4/17/2012
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Originally posted by Mr Telephone Man
Obviously Beautiful was lost on you, Xtina would not be proud.
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Member Since: 12/21/2010
Posts: 51,088
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Originally posted by nezLaos
At the end of the day i cant help how i feel, masculine girls scare.just as much as feminime men..idk why but thats how i feel period. I have to go to bed now cause i have work in the morning.
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Well how about you hide in a little cave then where you can feel safe from all the masculine girls and feminine boys breaking heteronormative standards!
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Member Since: 5/10/2011
Posts: 16,465
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Originally posted by Run The World
Like if you're a gay man, just act like a man, because YOU ARE a man. not a girl.
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This is like telling a non-fem gay to not like boys, because you are a man, not a girl.
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Member Since: 4/28/2012
Posts: 1,240
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Quote:
Originally posted by Run The World
Like if you're a gay man, just act like a man, because YOU ARE a man. not a girl.
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Straight to the point 
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Member Since: 1/25/2012
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Yes. But really feminine girls annoy me as well lol
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Member Since: 6/9/2012
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Originally posted by eli's_rhythm
Why not, though?
If they exaggerate their masculinity, is it cool?
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No
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Member Since: 1/30/2012
Posts: 2,658
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Originally posted by BoyOnBoy Wonder
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OKAY GIRL.
I'M THROWING ELBOWS.
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i didn't say anything wrong, that's just my opinion.
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Member Since: 12/21/2011
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Originally posted by Pelvic Thrust
This is like telling a non-fem gay to not like boys, because you are a man, not a girl.
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EXACTLY. LIKE what the **** 
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Member Since: 3/22/2012
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Originally posted by eli's_rhythm
Why not, though?
If they exaggerate their masculinity, is it cool?
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Nope, exaggeration either way for attention is annoying. It's just that this thread specifically asked about feminine gay men. I dislike when people try to be something they're not because they think it will get them attention or they think it will make them look cool. It's sad that people can't just be themselves without being so afraid of what others think. Again, if someone really is very masculine or feminine then more power to them, but there are times when you really can tell that someone is just acting in an exaggerated manner for attention. I know several gay guys who act overly masculine so people don't assume they're gay, as they're not completely out of the closet, and others who act overly feminine for attention.
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Member Since: 1/30/2012
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Quote:
Originally posted by Pelvic Thrust
This is like telling a non-fem gay to not like boys, because you are a man, not a girl.
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no sis, it's not like it
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Member Since: 5/7/2012
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Originally posted by Run The World
Like if you're a gay man, just act like a man, because YOU ARE a man. not a girl.
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Gender roles were created by society, they're not natural. There is no "acting like a man" or "acting like a girl" at the end of the day. I'm a girl who is into more "boyish" things. I like science, which is thought to be a mans field. I like rock music. I like video games. These are thought to be sterotypically male things. Are you going to tell me I need to act like a girl and stop being interested in these things? Should I suddenly become interested in makeup and fashion because those are "acceptable girly things" and I need to because I have a vagina and that apparently dictates how I live my life?
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Member Since: 2/6/2012
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Quote:
Originally posted by eli's_rhythm
Why not, though?
If they exaggerate their masculinity, is it cool?
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My friends do this all the time.  Especially this really lost/confused one. He feels the need to take jabs at this out gay kid at my school every time he sees him to prove his masculinity and heterosexuality. 
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Member Since: 1/16/2012
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Quote:
Originally posted by HausOfJabril
adsaskindasdas @ you not getting what I said at all. I meant we are all GAY, not the SAME PERSON, i.e. personality and etc.
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Originally posted by HausOfJabril
How are we supposed to be fully accepted into society as gays when we can't even accept people that are just like us?  |
well your wording did not make it sound that way.
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Member Since: 8/2/2010
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Quote:
Originally posted by Run The World
i didn't say anything wrong, that's just my opinion.
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No you did NOT just pull a anti-gay soundbite... 
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