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Discussion: Pity Party Thread
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Originally posted by DripDrip
I'm the same way to be honest, I hated doing oral presentations, but if I'm with a group of friends I'm close with I love attracting attention to myself.
I really just suggest going out of your element more. When I started my first job, I was so awkward and didn't want to talk to anyone. I even ate lunch at the far end of the parking lot sitting down on a curb hidden behind a bush 
But soon I just started talking to people and asked if I could join them, eventually I made some really good friends in there. |
I just don't like approaching new people, I always feel they have to make the first move and approach me..
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Originally posted by zach
What? 
That's insane! 
My parents arent that tall to begin with, so I don't have much to work with. I am the same height as my mom, and my dad is around 5'11 I believe. |
Well, their parents are each like 5'4 and 5'7 respectively...idk how tbh...
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Member Since: 7/18/2010
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Originally posted by coolcristobal
Speaking of sports, that's another issue I have.
I don't participate in P.E. when we do sports, so I have a C- right now 
I don't want to play because I'm scared of humiliating myself when I do mistake, I'm not good at sports  But I HAVE to play, or else I'll get an F by the end of the semester.
I'm done with PE tbh |
I made a f**king fool outta myself in PE when I took it. (I don't anymore since its not required and I have better classes to take).
I was never very good at sports either. I just tried my best. I advise you to do the same. Don't care what others may think or what you look like. You'll improve the more you work at it.
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Member Since: 12/19/2011
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Originally posted by LoudR
I mean I'm not THAT socially awkward, it's only towards people I don't really talk with, if that makes sense..
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I sorta get you.
You're only awkward towards people you don't talk with, but you're NOT awkward towards your friends. Is that what you meant
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Member Since: 7/18/2010
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Originally posted by LoudR
I just don't like approaching new people, I always feel they have to make the first move and approach me..
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Preach!
If someone talks to me, I will talk to them, but I am never the one to make the first move.
I've been told by my friends I come off as a snob.
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Member Since: 8/31/2012
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Originally posted by coolcristobal
Speaking of sports, that's another issue I have.
I don't participate in P.E. when we do sports, so I have a C- right now
I don't want to play because I'm scared of humiliating myself when I do mistake, I'm not good at sports But I HAVE to play, or else I'll get an F by the end of the semester.
I'm done with PE tbh |
Ur talking to the king of sucking at baseball  I used to swing the bat down like a lumberjack when it was my turn to bat 
Tho for all the times I was laughed at, I did manage to strike this douche in the nuts with the one time I hit it real good 
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Member Since: 12/19/2011
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Originally posted by zach
I made a f**king fool outta myself in PE when I took it. (I don't anymore since its not required and I have better classes to take).
I was never very good at sports either. I just tried my best. I advise you to do the same. Don't care what others may think or what you look like. You'll improve the more you work at it.
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That's the thing I'm scared about tbh 
If I make a fool out of myself, people will laugh at me. Then maybe my friends won't hang out with me anymore.
High School is hard tbh
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Member Since: 9/4/2011
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Originally posted by Robert
Do you drink at party's because I'm the same lol.
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I do, like I have to get a few drinks in me before I start getting rowdy..
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Member Since: 7/18/2010
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Originally posted by genetic fail
Exactly  |
How annoying of them!
How dare they bother you with their silence!
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Member Since: 3/27/2012
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Originally posted by coolcristobal
Speaking of sports, that's another issue I have.
I don't participate in P.E. when we do sports, so I have a C- right now
I don't want to play because I'm scared of humiliating myself when I do mistake, I'm not good at sports But I HAVE to play, or else I'll get an F by the end of the semester.
I'm done with PE tbh |
Oh sis, I failed PE twice
I just never wanted to participate, I always didn't dress out and instead just ended up talking to my friend in that class and gossiped for an hour, it was so much fun though
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Originally posted by LoudR
I do, like I have to get a few drinks in me before I start getting rowdy..
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You sound like a good time tbh, Like we'd be hollering nonsense together
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Originally posted by coolcristobal
OMG, maybe becoming a doctor is not worth it
Are you ok though? Did anything happen when he spit on you? |
Lots of ppl don't have anything wrong with them. And the lots of cases are basically the same over and over. Unless ur in the emergency room..in which case, I hope you ain't squeamish with blood and guts and that ish
And the test takes a month to be sure...so that whole month I was planning a final bang bang send off involving lots of partying, travel, and five star hotels if I actually was positive. Thank god I'm not!! 
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Member Since: 5/6/2011
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Originally posted by zach
How so?
You in danger. |
Nvm
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Member Since: 9/4/2011
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Originally posted by coolcristobal
I sorta get you.
You're only awkward towards people you don't talk with, but you're NOT awkward towards your friends. Is that what you meant |
Yep..
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Originally posted by zach
Preach!
If someone talks to me, I will talk to them, but I am never the one to make the first move.
I've been told by my friends I come off as a snob. |
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The only time I approach them first is when I think they're the type of people I wanna hang out with..
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Member Since: 7/18/2010
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Originally posted by coolcristobal
That's the thing I'm scared about tbh
If I make a fool out of myself, people will laugh at me. Then maybe my friends won't hang out with me anymore.
High School is hard tbh |
I am the same.
Sometimes, when I hear someone laugh around me, I'm paranoid I did something and they're laughing at me.
I know they aren't, but I still think they are.
It's more likely than not that someone would laugh at you. They're probably trying to keep it together themselves.
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Originally posted by TikiMiss
Lots of ppl don't have anything wrong with them. And the lots of cases are basically the same over and over. Unless ur in the emergency room..in which case, I hope you ain't squeamish with blood and guts and that ish
And the test takes a month to be sure...so that whole month I was planning a final bang bang send off involving lots of partying, travel, and five star hotels if I actually was positive. Thank god I'm not!! |
Good to know.
I'd probably be the same if someone who is HIV positive spit on me
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Originally posted by genetic fail
Nvm |
I mean, I kind of get what you mean.
I used to eat lunch with a large amont of people everyday at school. I don't like large groups, as I'm not really one to step into a big convo. So I'm usually just there.
I've been put down by many people who labelle me as a "stalker" because i just sit there and don't contribute. Probably has something to do with my issues now of being unwanted around others in conversations.
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Member Since: 3/27/2012
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Advice for all of you, stick it out until High School is over, because once its done ya'll will really not give any hoots about anything really. I never felt so liberated in my life after I graduated. As cheesy as it sounds I felt more like myself 
It seems long, but it really does fly by.
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Member Since: 9/4/2011
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Originally posted by DripDrip
You sound like a good time tbh, Like we'd be hollering nonsense together |
Haha thanks.. 
You don't know how many times my best friend and I have been kicked out of class for laughin too much..
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Originally posted by coolcristobal
Good to know.
I'd probably be the same if someone who is HIV positive spit on me |
During residency, you'll have to tolerate and make nice with homeless people and prisoners no matter how scary or smelly they are
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Originally posted by LoudR
Haha thanks..
You don't know how many times my best friend and I have been kicked out of class for laughin too much.. |
That used to be me.
And laughing at jokes, and then still laughing when everyone else stopped.
I sort of got out of it when I started not having friends in my classes. (well duh) 
But now I'm an A student. 
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