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Originally posted by beherebynow
Weeks?  They dated for months. They met in 2012 at the Kids' Choice Awards, went on a few dates, broke up cause Harry was seen kissing a girl and a year later they rekindled their relationship.
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Ok but the bit that I took away from that the most was this:
Don't get me wrong, I love Taylor. But even she herself has said that she's never been in love. I once dated a guy for 9 months. I saw him every single day and spent most nights at his apartment, and even now I'm hesitant to call him "my ex" as opposed to "this guy I dated for a bit" because he never really felt like an actual boyfriend, because I never really loved him.
I guess the best way I can describe it is this scene from Girls:
I'm not questioning Taylor's feelings at all. Her songwriting is incredibly honest and what she feels, she feels. I just think that from Harry's perspective, it was nowhere near as serious as what the rest of the world thinks it is. When you're in a really serious relationship, it's solid and it's strong and it's longlasting and you can honestly say that it was love.
It's just an outsider's perspective. Obviously I don't know anything about their relationship, but it seemed like a youthful attempt a relationship (which everyone has tons of) rather than a real, proper, life-changing relationship.
