Do you guys think age matters in a relationship ? I have gone out a couple of dates with a guy who is 44, but I kind of like him. It's a nice change from guys my age or younger who don't know what they want and play head games. By the way I am 23. So does it matter to you or is their conditions. Give your good sis some feedback.
It depends but i think for me it does, Im 17 and i have met quite a lot of guys in their 20s,30s and early 40s and they were all attractive and well of but I could never see myself in a relationship with a guy in his 30s/40s not even in late/mid 20s. Sex is a complete different thing tho
I am just really confused, and like anybody else I am scared of getting judged. Especially because in the gay community everyone knows everyones god damn business.
In my honest opinion no. People have their own preferences tho.. but me personally I like dating older guys it's just something about them that turn me on & usually they can keep me more interested in them than people around my age. I'm only 20 & I'll date somebody 30 or 31..
Honestly, they're going to think it's creepy, especially if you're a twink.
I'm also 23. I dated a 30 year old and it was fine (although the guy was ridiculously immature). I would probably put a cap at 35. Above that, though, it starts seeming a bit strange.
I admit it's a little uncomfortable to see couples with like a 20+ age difference. I don't really think it matters though, as long as the two people love each other.
I like guys around my age (I'm 21) but it's nice to be around older guys some times. They're just more mature and there isn't as much drama. Sometimes an older guy is just more sexy to me.
I think it matters depending on relationships. When there is a big difference in age people are more than likely to be at different stages in their lives, have different financial situations, school situations, workplace situations, etc etc.. different types of friends/family with different mindsets.
I don't see how some of these girls do it. When I'm dating someone or in a relationship with someone I need to feel equal, and that obviously won't be the case for someone in their early 20s still in school trying to have a relationship with someone who is already financially stable for the rest of their lives and already out of school and have pretty much settled down.
Honestly, they're going to think it's creepy , especially if you're a twink.
I'm also 23. I dated a 30 year old and it was fine (although the guy was ridiculously immature). I would probably put a cap at 35. Above that, though, it starts seeming a bit strange.
I think it matters depending on relationships. When there is a big difference in age people are more than likely to be at different stages in their lives, have different financial situations, school situations, workplace situations, etc etc.. different types of friends/family with different mindsets.
I don't see how some of these girls do it. When I'm dating someone or in a relationship with someone I need to feel equal, and that obviously won't be the case for someone in their early 20s still in school trying to have a relationship with someone who is already financially stable for the rest of their lives and already out of school and have pretty much settled down.
I have pretty much had that same view since I was 17, and none of my relationships have ever worked out .
I watched a TV program once about how marriages where the couples have a big age gap tend to have a better survival rate. They said something about how their ability to deal with this big (age) difference is reflective of their ability to deal with other differences in the relationship.
It matters to an extent. If the age gap is more than 10-15 years, it's kinda hard to avoid generational differences.
I mean being 23, your interests and goals cannot be in the same place as someone who's 44. It's just weird to me. But then again, they say you dont choose who you love.
I haven't dated anyone more than 2 years older than me, and never anyone younger (just worked out that way, I would def date someone younger if they weren't too much younger obvi).
I think it matters depending on relationships. When there is a big difference in age people are more than likely to be at different stages in their lives, have different financial situations, school situations, workplace situations, etc etc.. different types of friends/family with different mindsets.
I don't see how some of these girls do it. When I'm dating someone or in a relationship with someone I need to feel equal, and that obviously won't be the case for someone in their early 20s still in school trying to have a relationship with someone who is already financially stable for the rest of their lives and already out of school and have pretty much settled down.
You basically said what I said but much better, lol. I totally agree.
It's a nice change from guys my age or younger who don't know what they want and play head games. By the way I am 23. So does it matter to you or is their conditions. 
