This will get messy even though you've requested it not too, but oh well
I am fully pro-choice. The only time I might get pissed at someone for aborting is if it was for vanity's sake -- I remember there was a blind item a few months back about a celebrity who was pregnant with twins, and she was supposedly considering an abortion because she was afraid of having worse stretch marks from twins
Or maybe if it was super late into a pregnancy.
Otherwise though, abortions are fine with me. You should not bring a life into this world you are not emotionally and financially read to handle, or one that you simply don't want; that's not right for a child. And before anyone says adoption is always a solution... a) women still shouldn't have to carry a baby to term if they don't even want it (especially in cases of rape) aaaaand b) you clearly don't have any experience with adoption if you think it's all fun and rosy.
Finally, my huge pet peeve with "pro-lifers" is that they call themselves "pro-life" at all. That makes it sound like pro-choice is actually "pro-death." It's not like everyone who is pro-choice is all gung-ho about aborting left and right and "killing babies" (which abortion is not equivalent to, as much as people will try to claim). I'd bet that many pro-choice women still wouldn't get an abortion when it came down to it... they just want to know they have the choice to have an abortion should they absolutely need one.
And in the end, it should simply come down to women's votes, not men's.