I'm in a similar boat. It wasn't always this way, and I don't know what's changed or what it means, but I can't really click with many females these days.
It's been a lot of straight guys lately, which is fine, if perhaps not anything that has to mean much in the long run. They know I don't want them like that so things are relaxed and easy and cool. They like me a lot and accept me as I am.
But lately I've been missing female companionship. Things like noticing for the first time baby blue nail polish when they excitedly grab you by the wrist and pull you in close. Catching whiffs of shea butter shampoo when they toss their hair back before artfully disheveled ponytails appear like magic. More importantly, really being heard and feeling seen and appreciated, and trying to offer all that good stuff in return. The girls I used to have GREAT friendships with were strong and outspoken but delicate in their own ways. They were empathetic and interesting and strangely beautiful and devouring. Queens, honestly.
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Originally posted by Jay Fenty
You might not have enough personality to form connections with females like that.. idk
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