I'm thin and I deal with it. But I can't deny the fact that people might actually look better with 'muscles' but I look at them as "vain" and "shallow" (no offense).

I would like to here stories from ATRLers who diligently go to the gym regularly and actually burn hours (and fats) there.

I don't know if I'm just too lazy or I think body building is overrated.

I don't think 'body building' is the right word. Exercising, perhaps? I exercise sometimes, but it's not my life.

Everything in excess is bad.

i dont like big muscles, or the body builder type, but some body builders do have nice bubble butts lol. but i prefer an average fit guy, i dont even mind a little gut, or someone whos skinny, just be cute. lol

Thanks for that! I don't know why didn't figure that out before. Of course exercise is important, but simple chores are exercise for me, I think I'm going to the topic of improving the way you look or embracing who you are. I don't know I'm confused.

I think going to the gym is healthy, but excessive body building is not and is frankly off putting.

I'm fine with being thin, and toning as needed.

Big muscles are not that cute.

You mean just basic exercising? **** no.

But competitive body builders are a turn off.

Lean/Athletic is good.

I'm thin, but I love a guy with muscles.

But when you can't turn around to wipe your own booty, then there's a probably.

I'm having this issue because I'm preparing for upcoming job interviews that would mean everything to me. People here in our country prefer looks over the capabilities (most of the time) And I don't possess that much "capabilities" because I just graduated.

And I also have this self-esteem issue with me.

I'm not a fan of huge muscles but I prefer guys who are somewhat fit over total twinks.

And just because someone works out doesn't mean that they're vain/shallow. What kind of conclusion is that?

I love bigger/bulkier built guys, m'self. I go to the gym 4x a week for 30-50 minutes a day. Rowing and strength machines so I'm getting more muscle tone.

A tone body, some muscle here and there are great but those guys who seems to be full of balls aren't attractive at all.

i never go with guys with big muscles anymore iv tried but there way to vain and there peens are smaller i can never find them attractive now

Receipts or it never happened

I like muscles so no. Also I have been "body building" (bulking up) seriously on an off for the past year. I have put on at least 15 pounds (not fat)and I'm proud of myself.

I guess if you don't think muscle is hot then it's fine to not like body building, but I want a guy with muscle so I'm getting muscle myself.

I hate the toned look. I want a guy with muscle and maybe a bit of a gut it's just the type of guy I like.

I'm sorry, I know its illogical, but I used to think that people (mostly boys) bulk up to get you know what.

And that's another illogical comment, pardon me.