Discussion: Dating a HIV+ - Page 5

memi stan

I prob should have stated my no in a nicer way though. I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings.

WarriorQueen

I could never

primo.

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Originally posted by VAN de

Was she though?

I see no mention of frequency, but go on.

Shut up.

Midnight

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Originally posted by iBeyoncé.

Who's dating Vin?

Well, I don't know what to say....

manwhore

I Actually dated a guy that was hiv pos but he never disclosed this to me. Luckily I never engaged in any risky behaviour but I think people who are + should always disclose this. Im sorry its just the right thing to do.

I would not knowingly date an hiv + guy.

gagakyle

I don't think I could. The first time I gave a dude a blowjob, I became instantly paranoid about getting it, even though the documented risk for doing that is extremely, extremely low. Even if I took every safety precaution, I'd still be constantly worried about it, so I don't think it'd be worth it.

Bee․

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Originally posted by Middle of Selena

Yeah i know its hard to control your emotions but still how can we just left them alone i mean all those good memories

or may be the HIV+ person won't date u if he truly loves u

It's good that you had those memories though. And yea, if he truly loves you then there should be no problem with being friends because of the situation he/she is in.

zombaland

I probably would be insensitive and way too paranoid.

Haunted.

I could never do it.

Middle of Selena

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Originally posted by BEE.HD

It's good that you had those memories though. And yea, if he truly loves you then there should be no problem with being friends because of the situation he/she is in.

i mean if he/she truly loves u then they will tell u about the whole HIV drama and if they don't discuss about it then it clearly proves that they don't care about u and i think at that time there is only 1 option .. u left him/her bcz everything comes after your health

rue005

It's so hard to tell! But I think at the end it depends on the person, if it's someone really special or I fall deeply in love with that someone, I could take the risk. But the paranoia could make me crazy, tough

This reminds me of that Queer As Folk storyline! It really got me thinking about it for a long time!

Mzd

I want to say I would if I was madly in love and know I would spend the rest of my life with them, and make sure they are on all the meds and such, but It is still really scary to even think about

Shaliydah88

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Originally posted by @michael.

I couldn't do it.

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And Now I Wonder

I went out with him for 4 months and it was a really tough time for me because he was always paranoid about me cheating on him.

Once he flipped because I told him that I 'took a blood test and was clean', and he didn't like the word 'clean' because it inferred that he was 'dirty'.

We split because I was going to visit my friend (who I used to have a crush on but not anymore) in Germany and he was like 'It's him or me' and I picked the rest of my life outside him.

It was just too much on me, but he was a very, very sweet person whom I felt loved me a lot. It was just sad that he couldn't trust me enough and had to take his insecurities out on me