Well no one should hit anyone and I've never hit anyone first if not playing around. But I'm personally not going to let anyone beat on me. I think that's different than a person abusing another and that kind of situation. Just keep your hands off people.
What's with this mess of a question, it's wrong to hit anyone regardless of gender or sexual orientation. But people don't see anything wrong with a woman hitting a man but when a man hits a woman , people jump on him. Receipts:
Woman can hit men just as hard as man can hit a woman , if not worse but people only see domestic violence as a man abusing a woman.