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Originally posted by eli's_rhythm
While that makes logical sense to me, I'm a romantic. I'm basically unable to just have sex for fun. Unless someone I had a crush on wanted to sleep with me, I couldn't imagine ever wanting to have a one-night stand. It's actually uncomfortable for me to think about how I could get in that situation--I might prefer to be a more casual person with romance and dating, but dating/sex for dating/sex's sake just doesn't come naturally to me. I'm not looking for the experience. I'm looking for the person.
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Well, you see, I've become the same way. Up until last year, all I really cared about in a relationship was sex. But I've realized over time that I don't really get anything out of meaningless sex anymore. You know? It can be exciting, but it's not fulfilling. And it is pretty awkward when you get into those one-night-stand situations with people. Since I'm not a virgin, sex is a little more meaningless to me now, but I have learned to appreciate sharing it with somebody special. That's why I haven't had sex in over a year, and am waiting until I find a relationship.
It's cute, though, that you're that way.
I think everybody learns it at some point. But I'm sure I'll let loose some day, and I'll try not to regret it.
lets celebrate it by ****ing each other 