Bisexual doesn't mean you like both sexes equally. It means you like both sexes. You can have a preference. If its a sever preference (90-10), then you're probably more or less gay or straight with exceptions.

How dare gays or anyone else claim that bisexuals don't exist. Please do tell that to the millions of bisexuals and the many documented studies of bisexuality. Your opinion doesn't matter when there are FACTS involved.

Cahleb, speak for your ****ing self. You're either gay and like to experiment. Or more or less bisexual with a hard preference or men with either societal conditioning or just pure ignorance.

A cop out MY ASS! If you genuinely like both then you do. There's no copout. A copout would be to choose a labeling that doesn't ultimately fit you due to societal pressures from ignorant ****s like you.

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Your initial post about "bisexuality" being a fallacy was completely ignorant, but I think I understand what you're saying here. That's fine if you want to define your sexuality in that way, but let others define their own sexuality as well. There are many, many people that would consider you a bisexual based on your statements that you are attracted to both sexes. There's a difference between simply thinking/knowing men and women are attractive and wanting to sleep with both of them. That being said, the reality is that sexuality is extremely complex and more of a spectrum than just gay/straight or gay/straight/bi. Even the "spectrum" model fails to give sexuality's complexity justice. Just as a personal example (among many others'): though I tend to be attracted to more men, I tend to fall in love with women. I could SAY that perhaps I am 60% gay and 40% straight just based on numbers and my ambiguous measure of attraction, but that undermines how I feel about both sexes. It's awfully presumptuous and insensitive of you to simply dismiss bisexuality as false and label others' sexualities for them.

Your sexuality doesn't define you as a person, but there are certainly a set of life experiences, and thus knowledge, that comes along with being gay and coming out, and those things shape your character in a bigger way than you think. Had you not dealt with the internal conflict of coming to terms with your sexuality and never experienced those hardships that you mentioned, you would be a different person today, point blank period. I don't know in what way you would be different had you been born straight, but every single one of us would have been different in some way had we been born straight. There's no arguing against that. When you change one thing, the entire course of your life changes.

I came out as gay before I told people I was bisexual. I'm in a very, VERY gay-tolerant and liberal area, and it's really easy to come out and have everyone treat you exactly the same.

I first told some close friends that I was gay. People were very accepting. They told me that I was still the same person to them, that they were happy I could feel comfortable enough telling them that, and so on, the whole shpeal.

But that just didn't feel right, because I'm attracted to girls too. I started telling people I was bisexual, and people were more judgmental for some reason. They reacted as "Oh, okay... umm, are you sure you're not gay?" People were doubtful. My best friend, who's gay, still thinks that I'm actually gay, and just hiding under bisexuality as a cover. If I were gay I would just say that I'm gay! Yet, people doubt me and don't acknowledge me for my true self. It's really ironic that, here, there's more stigma against being bisexual.

I think though Cahleb is not right but a few people have overreacted. We correct them not mentally assault. Its not like he clearly knows about it and wants to say otherwise,

nah im glad im not attracted to women cus that roast beef sandwich is gross

And definitely not. I think I would be completely different if I was straight.

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What kind of dumbass, ******** statement is this?

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