ont get me wrong this nice guy is my friend and all but he making a bad decision. Long story short he has this new gf and all and apprently she has insecurity issues and does not like other people expecially girls talking to him at all. So he bascailly made a new screen name for her on aim. This guy is quite attractive guy and could score any women he wants but he chooses to be with a girl who has major secuirty issues. I kind of feel bad seeing i told him i dont think this girl is right for you but i think he wasting away good energy on a girl who chooses to controll him, and i know he could do much better


I know it none of my business to interfer in his realtionship on the other hand i dont feel like i cant sit down and do nothing.

From this, it just seems like she's an insecure girl who's afraid of losing her boyfriend to someone that's better than her, and she's just controlling him so that she can feel secure that she won't lose him. If he really likes her, he should just sit down and talk to her and let her know that she's not gonna lose him to another girl, that's why he's going out with her, after all. Unless he's a player, then again I don't know your friend. But just try and get your friend to talk to her about it and work things out if they like each other. It really shouldn't be any of your concern since it's his life and he'd probably want you to let him make his own choices, but if you have to do something, I guess that's what I'd suggest.

He is far from a player and he has been cheated on before so i dont even know why she has any concerns

meh, I've learned there isn't much you can do in these situations. In fact, you are best to stay out of it. The most you can do is to give your opinion and step back. These situations can turn ugly if you try to help, so stay out. Believe me.

Yes, what Exodus said. Just give him your advice, tell him how you feel about this whole situation and tell him why he should take your advice, he'll decide if he wants to take it or not, if he decides not to take it then just let him learn from his mistakes.