I know it's a complicated thing for some people of here. I think it should be really hard recognize the homosexuality (I'm straight, so, is not my case), for a lot of factors, mainly, the reaction of your parents, your friends, the discrimination of society, etc.

So, discuss, people, what's the most difficult part to recognize the homosexuality?

Feel free for tell us anything you want.

I'll be here all the time that I can, 'cause I'm going to launch very soon. After, I'll read all your comments. Just saying, I didn't create this with bad intentions, if somebody feels mad with me.

I made a lot of threads on ATRL and nobdy comment it. Seems like it's my end of ATRL.

I'm not sure what you mean.

Are you taking about the hardships that come with being gay?

I don't understand the point o the thread...Say it in a different way

Well, when you should confess your homosexuality, what are the things that make you doubt if tell it or not...In other words, the most difficult to recognize publicly your homosexuality. That's the point.

He's asking what makes it hard to come out.

Oh!

Well, for me I'm just really scared that they'll see me differently. I told my mom and best friend back and in '08 and I got the "I already knew" response from them, so that was cool. My dad will disown me if I told him. He's completely against gays. Oddly enough, he's the only person I really fear coming out to, even though we haven't seen each other in 12 years. My grandmother would be upset but she'd get over it. One of her brothers are gay.

For the most part, I just don't want things to be harder than they already are. I'm distant from lots of people because of it and I'm also an introvert. So if I come out all the way, it'll warrant unwanted attention. That's what I think anyway, lol.

I hate that most times after I come out how people will ask me if I think other guys are hot or would I **** them. Bitch, if I didn't pretend to talk about doing such and such to girls when you thought I was straight, why would you think there was a difference now? It's really annoying.

Anyway, I think I'm going to come out completely after I get done with college. It's not like most people don't already know. I just haven't confirmed it.

I remain unbothered for now.

Judgement in a negative manner. I am out so I don't fear judgement now, everyone I care about is OK with it and supportive so eh at everyone else....

I can't describe it but one of the biggest obstacles I think I'll ever have to face is coming out to my parents.

Sometimes, the main obstable is oneself.

i'm really scared of my dad

i remember in 2009 someone told him that they saw me with a guy having sex
and my dad called me and he was really angrey " i was with friends "

and he said " Come To Home NOW " i knew that he heared something

So when i came home he told me the story and them i was in denying i was say'n that Not true and blah blah blah " i was lieing 4 sure " .

and then my mam came to me she was crying and she told me WHY ? WHY did u do that ? What well people gonna say about us ? WHY ? "

p.s " of all my brothers $ sister my mam love me the most "
so it was really hard for me to c her crying becoz of me ? my heart was breaking every time i c those tears

my dad was about to hit me and kik me out the house but my mam told hem if he did that to me she will go to here parent house and she will never back to him .

so my dad didn't do anything to me

so that's why i cant even tell my dad , not becoz im afraid of him . it's just i dont want to c my mam cry again or heart in any way and im the resone of that ><


i cant foget that day too much drama happen i was crying all night ><