None of this is gonna be funny - just honest. ----- Okay gorls. We've been here, we may be here now, and were all gonna be here again. The Straight Fall. The attraction of a gay boy/man to a naturally straight guy. You don't know what to do. You may in love. It hurts. We love them for the fact that they are naturally straight. The natural roughness, sexiness and bravery. The jealous ways. They straight guys love to chase - like dogs....we love it. And then.....we fall. *We fall in love. We start to believe maybe under all that manliness that there's a secret manlover inside of him. And we want him, we crave him. And God forbid he asks you for anything or even touches you, you might be wearing a smile for the rest of the day. Then we fall deeper. We convince ourselves he likes us too. He's diggin it. After a while, you gotta admit. You might just LOVE the guy. But your caught between a rock and a hard place. You just wanna be with him. His natural straightness is just the BIGGEST turn on. He's TEASING you. You wanna tell him. . .your dead if you DO, and DEAD if you don't. And then your forced to face the fact that he's straight. But you just can't accept it. It hurts. So . . . as hard as it is...you've gotta let it go.*

The straight fall is one of the most dangerous thing a gay man can fall into. *Its a trap. It sucks. And theres nothing you can do. Believe it or not it's painful. Of course with many cases it's never going to happen, but can you blame us for being human and following our hearts? We cannot control who we love. And when we fall we fall hard....what I wanna know is...does anyone have any advice? What do you do when you fall like this?*

P.S - No this is actually not 100% based on me, this is not all about me or some page out of my diary. I'm not "in love" at the moment lol. However I think this is something I'm not alone in and other gay people can relate to. *

Oh sweetie, we can be here all night discussing this. I can honestly tell you I have NEVER fallen for a gay man, they are all straight, which still confuses my to this day.

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All I see are the stereotypical *****. I don't use them. But the straight boys... I honestly have had a fantasy with almost ever guy in my year.

Right?! I don't understand how you could anyways. If you like guys then why fall for a feminine one? You could just like females in that case.. Lol

this is the worst part of being gay




i can deal with the insults, the stereotyping and the loneliness but nothing is worse than falling for a guy and knowing deep down that there is ZERO chance of him ever feeling the same way about you

It's really hard. Just try to be braver and smarter. Try to put things in perspective, if you know that it will really hurt you then why continue hurting yourself by falling in love with that straight guy. It's a lose-lose situation, you will never get the guy if you admit that you love him and in return you only get yourself hurt. Try and learn to control your emotions.

i also just remembered where the inspiration for my sig came from

My best friend's the only straight guy I've fallen for, but I'm over him. These gay guys are hard to lockdown, tho. Always thinkin' about the next dick.

Same here. I fall in love with them so quickly.

I finally fell for a gay guy though. He's closeted, and I only know because our best friends are dating. You would NEVER guess he was gay. I thought he was just another straight guy I fell for, but I was pleasantly surprised.

Did your friendship last upon the confession that you've loved him?

There's this one straight guy in my gym class... and then this one guy on my bus...


They just have to be attractive...

I didn't tell him I was in love with him!!! He asked me once, but I said no. He knew I was, tho. He's very attuned to my emotions and body language as I am to his.

We've been friends for almost 11 years now.

What if you jokingly admit that you like him?

I have never fallen for a straight guy. Hm... from you've guys said it sounds soul crushing

Not all gay men are feminine though, and feminine works for some men, it can be extremely sexy sometimes.

For instance:

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I would never and I don't like him like that anymore. I was 18 and he was the only guy who knew at the time. If I still had feelings for him and I mentioned it, he'd probably disappear and I'd honesty feel like dying. He's like a brother to me.

Well, one of our gay friends tried getting in his pants once and they still talk, so maybe he wouldn't disappear. I don't have those feelings for him anymore tho... I'm trying to lock this other guy down as we speak.